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PRINTMISS Mon 23-Jun-14 07:44:09

That at this time of year some men of any age, shape or size seem to think that it is perfectly acceptable to strip to the waist. I can live with shorts and long socks - or no socks, but there are some men out there who would be much wiser to keep their clothes on. I know, it is a seaside thing, and probably townsfolk do not suffer so much, but there are some really appalling sights around down here, particularly as I live on what is loosely termed a 'private' estate! (Not as grand as it sounds!)

feetlebaum Mon 23-Jun-14 08:07:22

Why shouldn't they, if that's what they want to do? Nobody has a right to prevent ugly sights from being paraded... That said, I wouldn't do it myself!

PRINTMISS Mon 23-Jun-14 08:22:47

I couldn't agree more, feetle, I am not preventing them, I just do not understand why they feel the need.

Iam64 Mon 23-Jun-14 08:31:51

Could the way Brits tend to strip off to minimal clothing the minute the sun comes out be linked to the lack of sun ? The best spin I can put on it, is that our bodies tell us they need the Vit D - strip off.

I try not to be overly judgemental grin, but I loathe and detest the sight of all these chaps stripped to the waist, often wearing silly trousies that stop below the knee, and swaggering about like pirates. There, I said it!

Aka Mon 23-Jun-14 08:36:45

My 7- year old GS on stopping one of the 'let's strip off and show the world our beer belly' brigade asked 'isn't that illegal nana?'

No, but it should be hmm

Aka Mon 23-Jun-14 08:37:26

stopping spotting

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 08:59:19

AKA grin yes, it should be!

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 09:00:14

Also these men are never like Brad Pitt in his heyday are they? In fact, usually the opposite.

thatbags Mon 23-Jun-14 09:05:02

I dislike it too but I don't think it should be illegal. Freedom means one has to put up with lots of things one doesn't like.

Anniebach Mon 23-Jun-14 09:28:11

Because they want to? Because they enjoy the feeling of being free of restricted clothing? I can never understand why women of a certain age wear sleeveless tops or dye their hair but accept it's because it makes them feel good

MiceElf Mon 23-Jun-14 09:30:13

I'm sure it's not a first but GS asked me - very loudly - 'Granny, when is that man going to have a baby?'.

Lona Mon 23-Jun-14 09:35:30

If every person that stripped off was beautiful/fit/handsome/slim/tanned or just plain gorgeous, the rest of us could feel quite inadequate!

So, I don't mind the "appalling sights" because they make me feel good!

Paula8 Mon 23-Jun-14 09:40:53

I'm with you Annie

MiceElf that is so funny smile

kittylester Mon 23-Jun-14 09:43:59

I'm with you Lona grin

berdie Mon 23-Jun-14 09:44:59

I agree with*Lona*, we don't get that much sun in this country, and I know everything goes south as we get older, but cut us some slack ladies, summer doesn't last that long, and it makes us feel young again, to strip the shirt off smile.

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:05:38

Yes, but in your own garden or the beach. Not in the shops. Standing next to a fat sweaty beer gut the other day in a cafe, I just thought 'time and place' you know? hmm

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:07:41

Surely you know that both AKA and myself were joking by saying 'should be illegal?'

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:08:15

Although....... hmm

thatbags Mon 23-Jun-14 10:12:57

That it was a joke did occur to me but there are some very silly laws out there already and, obviously, I cannot really know how other people are thinking or whether thay are joking when I can't see them or hear their tone of voice. The emoticons are useful to help indicate jokery.

And friendliness smile

Besides, what I said is what I think is important whether others were joking or not.

Aka Mon 23-Jun-14 10:14:56

hmm That explains a lot Bags

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:18:01

That's why I used the grin emoticon. grin

grumppa Mon 23-Jun-14 12:10:27

I agree entirely about garden or beach, rosesareread. But I wonder what the reaction would have been if a grandad had started a thread about women who expose too much of themselves.

Not of course that any Gransnetter would.....

ninathenana Mon 23-Jun-14 12:26:18

Oh I don't know grumppa my mum's 70ish neighbour used to garden in a bikini top and short shorts. She did put a vest top on as well to walk the dog.
So I suppose that's ok grin

What annoys me is when you see these unpleasantly exposed bodies, the large beer belly especially and they look at the not so slim me in a normal skirt and top as if I'm a freak !

thatbags Mon 23-Jun-14 12:28:10

That's good, aka. Happy to oblige.

janerowena Mon 23-Jun-14 14:25:55

I do worry about all that perspiration dripping unfettered onto things like café chairs. I saw one large man that looked as if he had just had a shower and it was trickling from his belly button down his stomach and dripping on the ground. Fascinating to watch, hard not to stare.