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Cossy Wed 05-Aug-26 16:37:53

Yesterday my daughter and daughter-in-law were busy grumbling about how slow their first house purchase is taking and wishing it would speed up as they signed their contract 5 weeks ago.

Today my sweet DiL, who’s carry DD baby went into spontaneous labour and after waters broke and baby was upside down with umbilical cord separating, she had an emergency C section and then at 13:00 baby Henry was born at 24.9 weeks, weighing 1lb 6oz.

We are all hoping for a good outcome in the end, please pray to whatever God or spiritual being or keep your fingers crossed that baby Henry comes through this.

DD and DiL in shock and baby about to be transferred to a Neonatal Unit in a hospital nearly 40 miles away. This is their first baby and first try at IVF. He’s so tiny (I couldn’t see him but DD sent photos) 😢

Whitewavemark2 Tue 06-Oct-26 15:43:45

cossy I’ve just read your latest update- I managed to miss it earlier on.

Dear oh dear, - well Henry at least has everyone gunning for him. Well done you!

butterandjam Tue 06-Oct-26 15:50:31

Whitewavemark2

Had lunch on Saturday with our family’s less than 2lb prem. baby. He is 34 now and expecting his own first child. Such excitement. He is a gentle, intelligent and successful man whom the whole family love.

:-)

For anyone who watches "Our Yorkshire farm ", the strapping lad 6ft 6 Reuben Owen was 10 weeks premature, born at home and weighed 3 lbs.

Moth62 Tue 06-Oct-26 19:48:21

Very well done, granny for not only seeing the problem, but helping to alleviate it calmly and knowledgeably for the wellbeing of wee Henry and all the other babies. I truthfully don’t know what I would have done in the same position. And the wee man is now 3lbs!! ā¤ļø

latedecember1963 Tue 06-Oct-26 21:21:08

Well done on your advocacy for Henry and his Mums, Cossy!

We all need a Cossy in our lives!

Well done to Henry too for being such a little star. 3lbs! 🤩

blue14 Tue 06-Oct-26 21:53:46

Oh Cossy - well done for managing to stay calm in this situation!

Henry is steadily putting on weight - 3lbs is lovely.

Doodledog Tue 06-Oct-26 23:51:54

Well done Cossy! Henry and his mums must be very grateful to you.

3lb, too! He’s coming on so well.

Chocolatelovinggran Wed 07-Oct-26 07:41:16

Congratulations for handling it so well, Cossy, and for the good news on Henry's progress.
What are the next steps for him?

Cossy Wed 07-Oct-26 15:29:48

Chocolatelovinggran

Congratulations for handling it so well, Cossy, and for the good news on Henry's progress.
What are the next steps for him?

Next steps

He needs to come off the ventilator, he’s had one bash at it and just was not ready. He is ā€œbreathing over the ventilatorā€ so apparently can breathe unaided, but not for long.

They might try again on Friday šŸ™šŸ™, but we’ve all been reassured that this is all very normal.

Once he’s off the ventilator and breathing independently, but with help (CPAP or other aids), then he has to learn to be able to keep his temperature fairly level on his own. His incubator is monitoring this currently and automatically adjusts.

Then he needs to only be on the high fat baby formula and tolerate this well, then the ā€œlong line tubeā€ he has with proteins/vits/ minerals will be disconnected.

Then his vitals all have to be pretty stable, most of the time.

At this point he’ll be assessed to be transferred locally to a Special Baby Care Unit.

He will hopefully continue to grow and develop his ā€œsuckā€ reflex further and move from tube feeding to bottle feeding.

Then will come all the additional testing on his eyes and brain to see what, if anything, can done to prevent or minimise damage which will affect his overall development.

All of this will probably take the next 2-4 months. We were hoping he might be home for Christmas.

Then he will need a further operation to reverse his stoma.

But he’s doing ok. He has come such a long way, and his journey will continue.

He has two very capable and loving Mummies, who will do anything they can in their power to give him a good life.

One is an infant school teacher, the other, my DDiL, is a twin, both born at 23 weeks 5 days themselves!

Both now adults, fully functioning and survived this 28 years ago. DiL’s twin now has a 3 month baby herself, luckily full term. Warrior mothers with warrior babies.

🩵

V3ra Thu 08-Oct-26 07:30:44

One is an infant school teacher, the other, my DDiL, is a twin, both born at 23 weeks 5 days themselves!

Wow. History repeating itself!
Hopefully Henry will follow his mum and aunt and also flourish 😊
Prayers and good wishes to Henry and all his family xx