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Do you wear a wedding ring?

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Macaydia Fri 15-May-26 05:29:40

I am widowed buy I wear my wedding ring so interested strangers think I am claimed. When I lost my husband, I put his wedding ring on a necklace aroynd my neck as I cried. I dont like jewelry so I have put it all away, now. If you are not married, do you wear special jewelry for comfort or strength? Did you wear a ring every day, if you were married? If widowed, did it change fingers, other hand, or get put in a drawer? Was it sold or given to a relative? (Just bored and wanting some stories).

grandMattie Fri 15-May-26 05:51:55

Yes, I still wear a wedding ring in my widowhood.
I’m not remotely interested in another man, although friendship would be pleasant. Besides, at my age, a man would probably be looking for a nurse!

ginny Fri 15-May-26 06:49:48

I wear my wedding ring most days. I take it off at night and sometimes forget to replace it in the morning. Married for 50 years in July.

Cossy Fri 15-May-26 06:52:29

No, since arthritis set into fingers and hands, wearing rings is not possible

dragonfly46 Fri 15-May-26 07:02:24

I never take either of my rings off. I have had them 58 years.

Magenta8 Fri 15-May-26 07:05:56

I haven't worn a wedding ring for 14 years. I broke my left wrist in 2011 and the ring had to be removed.

I have pierced ears but I haven't worn earrings for ages so now I wear no jewellery at all.

Basgetti Fri 15-May-26 07:23:13

I don’t like jewellery either but have never taken off my wedding ring.

Bellasnana Fri 15-May-26 07:23:56

I wear my rings and also my great-grandmother’s wedding ring. She used to work in the mills in Oldham and I often think of the hard work done by her hands while wearing this ring. I feel close to her although she died long before I was born.

Calendargirl Fri 15-May-26 07:29:01

Never worn my wedding ring at night, and often don’t in the day, certainly if I’m just at home.

Usually put it on if going out.

It’s a wide 70’s ring, very fashionable when we married nearly 54 years ago, but if I were getting married now, I would choose a thin band and wear it all the time.

Wide bands can be uncomfortable as your fingers age, have had to have mine stretched.

Greyduster Fri 15-May-26 07:34:06

Mine would have to be cut off. I’m more than happy for it to stay where it is.

Macaydia Fri 15-May-26 07:34:10

I take my ring off if I am doing certain recipes.

Georgesgran Fri 15-May-26 07:34:22

I love a bit of bling, wear it every day, but I’m not sentimental over jewellery. I was married in ‘72, with a wide yellow gold band. Later, I changed it for a much narrower yellow gold ring, then I decided I liked white metal better and got a very narrow platinum band, like a curtain ring! Same with ‘engagement’ rings - I started with a diamond and sapphire cluster, moved on to a diamond trilogy, then after we were burgled, I bought a pear shaped emerald and diamond ring. Widowed, I still wear my latest wedding ring - a diamond set band I bought in ‘05 before a holiday in Egypt. Sometimes, I do forget to slip it back on after I’ve cleaned it.
I was 75 in March and treated myself to a pair of diamond stud earrings - I think DH would have approved.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 15-May-26 07:37:34

I am fortunate, DH is still by my side.

I do not always wear my wedding ring, I take it and others off, put them away and forget to put them on.

DH is often asking are we not married today ? when he notices.

tanith Fri 15-May-26 07:42:26

I don’t like jewellery and don’t wear any now including rings my wedding ring was getting difficult to take off so I left it off after my husband died. I gave my engagement ring to my eldest daughter years ago. I still have about a dozen rings which my family can do as they please when I’m gone. The rest of my jewellery can go to various family members.

LadyGracie Fri 15-May-26 07:44:14

I’ve never taken my wedding ring off, we married in December 1970. It would need to be cut off now.

Macaydia Fri 15-May-26 07:44:57

Have you seen those rubberish rings? Electricians wear them.

Macaydia Fri 15-May-26 07:47:35

-- silicone. For safety.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 15-May-26 08:47:50

Macaydia

Have you seen those rubberish rings? Electricians wear them.

A couple of our sons wear them.

Witzend Fri 15-May-26 08:53:02

Not at the moment, since it got a bit tight - I need to get around to having it made a bit bigger. But it IS a ring, not a band! When did so many people start talking about wedding ‘bands’? They were always rings until relatively recently.
‘With this ring, I thee wed…’

Franbern Fri 15-May-26 09:10:44

Cannot wear either wedding or engagement rings. The non-malignant growth I have has caused my fingers to get much too big - so cannot get either of those even on my little fingers. Sit in jewellery box now.

Georgesgran Fri 15-May-26 09:27:07

Goodness Witzend. Calm down.
I take it you’re referring to me?

Just googled and it seems either band or ring is acceptable - even De Beers use ‘band’.
I tend to think of a band as plain, whereas a ring is fancy with gemstones.
It’s just a word anyway and language evolves constantly.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 15-May-26 09:32:30

Freda Payne sang about a band of gold in 1970.

All is left of the dreams I hold is a band of gold, and memories of what love could be…

Jaxjacky Fri 15-May-26 09:54:43

Yes I do, next to an eternity ring, it rarely comes off.

merlotgran Fri 15-May-26 09:57:57

It will always be a wedding ring in my world. A band is something that gets me tapping my feet.
I still wear a wedding ring that DH bought me to replace the original which had to be cut off after a bee sting caused my finger to swell and turn purple.
My engagement ring is now too small so I mix and match other rings to wear on that finger.

REKA Fri 15-May-26 10:00:21

I've worn a wedding ring for about 10 minutes in my whole life .

Been married twice so a ring was slipped on during ceremonies then slipped off shortly after.

I really dislike wearing rings and am permanently ring free