Soop's KITCHENERS

I've had an official update on my brain tumour, no change, and in the consultants opinion as it hasn't changed in 4 years, is very unlikely to, but they will keep monitoring, they did change my drugs a little but otherwise nothing

The same consultant also gave me an unofficial update on my kidney scan, no stones, no obstruction, so what the hell is causing the pain (but it is not what I had feared). Waiting to see the urologist.

Good results * G&Tea*

Annsixty, I have PM'd you.

Not a good result, no excuse now for not doing those chores

Alea hope R is coping and you're looking after yourself. Don't suffer from self neglect please. Thinking of you and we send our love.?

Alea I agree with every word that Galen has said- you must look after yourself- Grace will agree with me as her needs have to be catered for also.

That is quite a journey today but you are going by the best method of transport so that removes some of the stress. You will both collapse when you come back home but it is so nice to be home again with a lovely doggy welcome.

GandTea that is sort of good news that the tumour has not progressed. I do hope that they find the cause of your kidney pain but at least it is not what you thought it may be. That is one big relief.

It is so humid here and the heavens look as though they are about to open.

Thank you all. DH is dozing quietly waiting his turn. Just keeping fingers crossed it all goes ahead, although his temperature is back to his more normal 35.something, but awaiting the results of full set of bloods.
Once it is done I need to work out a way home, assuming bus into Oxford ? then the X5 to MK. coachway and hope somebody can pick me up. I'll be making good use of my bus pass!

Yes, buses go into the centre of Oxford from just near the main entrance/exit to JR, then you can get the MK bus from there. Or, taxis can be easily contacted, there is a special phone through to taxi company on the info desk.

What a stressful time. I hope you will be able to TRY to relax when the procedure is over and a large glass of whatever will do the trick.

But don't have the large glass before you get on the MK bus, otherwise you may end up in Bristol.

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No wonder that what we used to call 'buns' in my childhood have now been renamed 'cupcakes'
Alea, I'm glad you didn't have to drive into Oxford and with luck the public transport system won't be too traumatic.

DH's procedure had to be abandoned unfortunately. they came up against a problem or two and It wasn't going to be straightforward, but when the anaesthetist felt his condition was giving cause for concern it was decided to come out for his safety.
Annoying, but there you go.
He will be staying in overnight for observation, but should be able to come home tomorrow.
Just as well I stayed.

Oh dear Alea it never rains but it pours does it?

I am hoping that you can have a restful evening with Grace, put your feet up and do zilch. With luck you will sleep well tonight if it is not too humid, ready for another day.

Oh heck (or similar!) Alea. Do they have a plan B?

They are not going to reattempt it. In itself, the procedure, while a Good Thing, was not a lifesaver and if the risks involved outweigh any possible advantage, I am in full agreement with their decision.
One question is why he went downhill so rapidly under anaesthetic, as he has had longer, operations (much longer - liver transplant was over 7 hours heart valve and aortic graft about the same) so that is why they are keeping him under observation. Like all things medical which do not go to plan, a bit worrying.

Even more - it's no wonder you don't lose weight despite the worry! for when you get home! Keep us posted.

Or as we say in the Kitchen, a bit of a buggeration

So sorry the procedure didn't work out Alea. It all sounds so exhausting for you. Hope the journey home is straightforward and you have a peaceful evening and good night's sleep.
GandTea, tumour news is good, kidney news not so good. Hope the slugs aren't giving you too much bother
Annsixty, hope the two days in purdah (spelling?) aren't too boring. Thank goodness for the Internet and GN!
I'm managing so much better than I thought I would - this time last week I couldn't see how I was ever going to get out of the clothes I was wearing, let alone get clean. But I can wash and dress myself now, make a cup of tea, feed myself, go for a walk on my own - and I brought in my bins without any help! Counting my blessings madly

Sorry to hear that Alea - sometimes uncertainty is worse than knowing for sure, even if it's bad news.
Stay optimistic if you can.

Alea I've just this minute caught up with news of the aborted procedure. The specialist knows best. It's far safer for your husband to remain where his condition can be monitored. I was hoping that you would be returning home together. The NHS is first class. Your husband is in expert hands. I'm sorry that you will continue to be stressed. Please keep us updated.

Welcome Linnieg Us lot are trying to maintain a healthy diet. You know the kind? But, as you've been generous enough to make chocolate Tiffin for us...do take the best chair in the house a comfy chair and feel free to share. Rory (the feral cat that was) may appear to be fierce...he'll get to know you well enough if you pamper him something rotten

kitty Thank goodness that the cause of your daughter's stomach pain has been identified. She will need to stay with a suitable diet.

GandTea Phew! One moment I'm reading that you've been dancing a fantango and then, all casual-like you mention the brain tumour. Bless you. I'm thankful that the latest report is favourable.

Galen and Bella...Tikes!!!

annsixty Your latest consutation and treatment is as good as it gets. You are being extremely well cared for. You're worth it.

MacSporran spotted the new fawn with his mother this morning. I'm adding a photo for you.

Sun is shining. The day started off exceedingly misty/foggy. All well right now.

So sorry, Alea. You have been through so much and you must be tired and frustrated yourself and concerned for your DH. It must be hard on your DDs too, feeling helpless to do as much as they would like to do for you both.

Aren't body bits strange...I've one leg shorter than the other, one eye stronger than the other, one bun bigger than the other. Sigh!

Soop, the brain tumour has never worried me, it is benign and only if it grows could it become a problem, it is also easily operable should it be necessary.
Getting around the dance floor without stepping on Mrs P's toes is far more worrying.

Alea, so sorry it had to be aborted, but better safe than sorry, but it is a bummer after all the build up.

Yup. One classic buggeration, alea. Safe journey home and I hope you have a really restful evening knowing your DH is in good hands

G&T, I'm glad your brain tumour isn't causing problems. Even benign ones can be a problem: my dad had a benign cyst but it caused problematic blockages that prevented cerebrospinal fluid from getting around. It was successfully removed but he reckoned they cut his short term memory out too

GandTea Daft as it seems, I can close my eyes and imagine you and Mrs P (she is still married to you?)doing a soft shoe shuffle around the dance floor.
I first met MacSporran in 1987. At that time, he lived in Cornwall and I in Devon. During our first evening out together, we discovered that at one time (in our teens) we went to school in Northampton. The boys from his school had dancing lessons with the girls from my school. There is an outside possibility that we danced together. He's absolutely convinced that he waltzed with me.

bags We have a friend who underwent brain surgery (to remove a cyst) and remained conscious throughout. [Heck!