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Anya Mon 21-Mar-16 09:30:14

Thinking this would be a better name for this site, I've never read such a load of grumpy, negative, twittering posts in my life. It makes depressing reading and remind me of my late MiL for whom nothing was ever right.

Don't want to contribute to a honeymoon because you had ten Pyrex dishes and six coffee pots and that's how it ought to be? Never mind that today's young people will have to both work (until they're 70 at this rate) and struggle to pay for child care, so this might be the last carefree holiday they have until they retire.

Don't approve of the NHS One You initiative because you know it all and anyway you've no intention of changing your lifestyle, while at the same time moaning that the NHS is not performing well (due to the population eating itself into obesity)

Can't think of one positive thing to say about this government forgetting that there was 'nothing left' as truly stated in the note from the outgoing last lot.

I could go on but as I've offended almost everyone by now I'd better stop.

FHS it's getting so depressing just signing in to GN and I wonder what GNHQ think about us. I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to answer to most AIBU questions with a loud, resounding YES

lights the blue touch paper and retires

grannylyn65 Mon 21-Mar-16 14:57:14

Surely not. Wot .

Synonymous Mon 21-Mar-16 14:59:05

Ooh dear annsixty you would think at 75 she would be all growed up wouldn't you?! I don't think I could have held my tongue long enough! blush

A friend of mine lost the sight in one eye due to complications in anaesthesia during surgery for breast cancer recently so I wouldn't recommend any surgery that was not strictly necessary. shock

mumofmadboys Mon 21-Mar-16 15:10:48

Although I very much understand what you are saying annsixty if it is your own body it is easy to become obsessed with some small flaw rather than take a rational approach. Perhaps your friend is also mourning her loss of youth and health.

Nonnie Mon 21-Mar-16 15:27:46

I thought surgeons were supposed to offer reconstruction at the time of the original surgery? Now sure where I got that from. Surely it would make more sense to just have one op?

whitewave Mon 21-Mar-16 15:32:08

Yes non you are. So perhaps the surgeon thought it was too insignificant to warrant a reconstruction

grumppa Mon 21-Mar-16 15:40:40

I will claim copyright!

Lona Mon 21-Mar-16 15:56:36

pensionpat That's great news!sunshineflowers

annsixty Mon 21-Mar-16 15:58:59

She was only in for a few hours and came home with a plaster over a few stitches so it really was insignificant.
I will end this now as don't want to be seen to be being bitchy just because I can't wear a bikini, but then I never could?

pompa Mon 21-Mar-16 16:15:13

Ann, if you don't want to wear a bikini, don't. OK it might turn a few heads, but go for it. wink

annsixty Mon 21-Mar-16 16:22:25

?

pompa Mon 21-Mar-16 16:44:39

Which reminds me of the old joke, "Granny, I don't know what you are wearing, but it needs ironing!"
Present company excepted of course.

MargaretX Mon 21-Mar-16 17:09:58

I blame it all on the Archers. we used to have 15 minutes every day to dream of a comfortable life on a farm with ready made casseroles in the oven and a yearly pantomime. And every body so......... neighbourly and kind.
Now its a mental and physical abuse tale which drags on and on.

Grumpnet doesnot affect how I feel myself so grump on if you feel like it and it does you good!

pompa Mon 21-Mar-16 17:46:25

Most of the soaps seem to be depressing (except for Benidorm)

Wheniwasyourage Mon 21-Mar-16 18:10:52

I find the politics threads so depressing that I rarely read them now, and don't want to get involved in posting. Obviously we are never all going to agree about the government, the referendum, the previous government, the previous referendum - you name it - but we should be able to say what we think without the sheer nastiness which we have had on some of these threads in the past.

The lighter threads can be fun. For example, I enjoyed the Ask a Question one, which got into the second collection but then, I think, we just ran out of questions, but maybe it could be revived at some point. Even so, somebody who didn't want to take part found it necessary to ask if there was any point to such a thread!

Recently I tried in vain to put a post on the thread about odd compliments, because I thought mine was funny (it was at the time, anyway) but after several attempts I realised that my laptop needs upgrading and so eventually put it on using the desktop. Far from amusing anyone, the thread then disappeared, so bang goes my attempt to cheer you all up grin

As that failed, I send you all flowers and sunshine

rascal Mon 21-Mar-16 18:14:29

I don't post much because I don't like the grumpy replies. It sometimes reminds me of my time at school in the fifties with the grumpy teachers. Nothing was good enough and I hated it! confused

Kittye Mon 21-Mar-16 18:42:41

Pensionpat so pleased for you smile flowers.

phoenix Mon 21-Mar-16 18:59:18

I used to be quite funny.blush

BTW, who has been lost/misplaced?

morethan2 Mon 21-Mar-16 19:00:38

Like others I think it's the time of year and it has been particularly grey and drab, yep mild but grey. It's the time for coughs, sinus problems and sore throats. Not to mention hot swollen joints. I don't mind reading the little moans. It often makes me realise I'm not on my own feeling like I do. I have a holiday question but I'm too miserable to start a thread. Talking about holidays always cheers me up. In the midst of all this misery I have had chinks of light. I got my bus pass whoop whoop. ? I had a bit of a tiff with my DiL over Christmas that's been sorted. flowers for us all and fingers crossed for some sunshine

Ana Mon 21-Mar-16 19:02:27

Oh, yes please morethan2 (although it doesn't look too promising for the Easter weekend...sigh)

wot Mon 21-Mar-16 19:03:01

Rascal, you've got as much right to your opinion s as any other gransnetter. If someone is horrible to you tell them "to do one!"

rosesarered Mon 21-Mar-16 19:09:01

Today has been sunny (ish) the garden looks lovely, birds are singing, my four year old DGS has just phoned me for a chat ( to tell me about a new toy) DH said 'your hair looks nice' this afternoon and we are just settling down with ipad, books and tv for the evening ( sigh of contentment) so no moans from me! smile I even have a box of Maltesers.

Lona Mon 21-Mar-16 19:21:14

My little dgd is poorly, so she is coming to Nana for a cuddly day on the sofa. smile So I'm definitely not grumpy.

joannapiano Mon 21-Mar-16 19:59:36

For my birthday last week, DH bought me a little silver necklace with a golden bee on it, to remind me to "Bee Happy!" I had seen it and admired it in a small jewellery shop some time ago.
I am so pleased for you pensionpat.

Jalima Mon 21-Mar-16 20:02:36

for what I thought was a light-hearted comment,
ooh er, never be light-hearted badenkate shock

pensionpat Congratulations, that is great news
flowers and a smile

Right can we decide whether we are behind the barricade or in a hole please? I thought it was Les Miserables who manned the barricade? Do we want to be Miserables? Mais non!

annsixty imo that is a waste of NHS resources. But then, I have never worn a bikini so I don't miss wearing one smile

I will try not to be too Pollyannaish (doesn't suit me anyway grin)

Ana Mon 21-Mar-16 20:07:11

Does anyone suit the Hayley Mills pigtails and cheesy smile look? grin