I haven't seen it by would say that any child has to be capable of dealing with the outcome, it sounds awful.
My ds is dyslexic with regard to English and in the superior range for sciences....maths, physics, chemistry. He was always the youngest in his class and top of his class. In upper sixth the school suggested he and another pupil apply for Oxford.
My son vehemently did not want to do this. I supported his decision believing that at just turned 18 he was not experienced enough in life. If he had wanted to go...I would have supported his decision.
After one year at uni he struck out and started to house share, was happy. He'd left home but home was also just a half hour drive.
The other pupil applied and was accepted at Oxford. He died in second year from a drugs overdose.
Sorry to have rambled, my point being......that children are often not emotionally ready for they might otherwise be capable of. And parents often need to wise up.
An example, my childless BIL on the paternal side told me I gave my son bad advice, but it had been my son's own decision. BIL said I should have not accepted my son's decision. This caused a coolness from my BIL to me. My ex h was of no help as he had a severe personality disorder.
BILs coolness did not improve when I left ex h.
Parents must put their children's well being first.
I am appalled at pushing children too far too soon, and parents pushing children at what could be the expense of emotional and mental health.
Sorry to have ranted.
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