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Indeed it is, and quite right to stop it. But arguing that because a man has had a child and was married he could not have been gay all along is quite inaccurate, as I said, it used to happen all the time to hide being gay in the UK for centuries.
One of our very good friends, only in his 50’s, married a woman and had two children. He only had the “guts” to come out much later.
My SiL, did precisely the same, she was born in 1954, into a strict catholic family. Whilst away at teachers training college she found she was more attracted to women, however when she qualified, she did what was expected, married a man and had children, she left him after 2 decades to “come out”, however the guilt was too much for her and 1 year later she committed suicide.
It’s awful to have to hide the fact you’re gay.
It’s even worse to “pretend” to be gay for your own gain.
I’m empathetic to most asylum seekers, so these stories make me very angry, the advisors and solicitors are totally corrupt, those pretending to be gay will make it so much harder for those asylum seekers who are persecuted in their own countries, to seek asylum. Awful situation all around, but this isn’t a new story.