I very much doubt that anyone thinks anything other than that war is 'awful'. Who in their right mind would want to see sons, grandsons, husbands or anyone be sent to fight, or our homes blasted into oblivion as we see in Ukraine and Gaza every night on the News?
Are we at risk? I doubt any of us knows that, regardless of what family members may say. Those high up enough to really know won't be dropping hints to grandparents who might do a 'taps nose' thing online 😂.
I do, however, think that it's probably right that we all pay into a strategic defence plan, as global insecurity doesn't feel reassuring just now. That shouldn't mean that young people should shoulder the cost, as they have more to lose than we oldies, but that all citizens should be expected to sacrifice something to pay for others to defend us should the need arise.