Lovely weekend, bbq with old friends on Sunday. My friend who hosted pushed the boat out as usual, cooking lots of delicious and unusual recipes she wanted to try. She’s a keen cook. I felt guilty because I had been about to invite everyone to us but she beat me to it and I felt relieved. My guilt was assuaged by all the other women expressing similar sentiments. On Monday we had DS2 and his partner together with the Ukrainian family we hosted 4 years ago and are still in regular contact with. It is marvellous to see them doing well, the boy is now at university and on a year exchange to Japan! Mum is a teacher but working as a teaching assistant here which she finds frustrating. The girl is year 10, has won loads of awards at school and is taking some GCSE’s early. She was 11 when she came and now towers over me- she calls us her UK grandparents. I wonder what the future will hold for them, their home town where the father and grandmother still live was hit by a drone attack last week. The mum often says that she wouldn’t have believed it if someone had told her 5 years ago that she’d be living in the north of England.