How private should a pm be?

Just to be clear, I've never had really nasty pms just a few passive aggressive ones. I have pm contact with a few members on a sporadic basis!

But why, oh why, did I not get a pm from Tom?

kitty you and I are Billy No Mates as far as Tom is concerned (or Dick, or Harry for that matter).


ps be careful what you wish for

I didn't receive one either from Tom! ?
I suspect he realised we are not pushovers!

Ah, that’s a good way to look at it, Marydoll. I was feeling neglected too.

We're just not in the loop

I would hope PM's remain private but it does beg the question if and when the trust is broken behind the reason why PM's exist then I don't have any qualm if a vindictive, anonymous poster were outed, the PM would have to be very bad though to go that far.

Why ' aid and abet ' bad behaviour by somebody so cowardly he/she thinks it is OK to send a nasty PM?

If it comes down to ' etiquette ' then that poster broke that code surely . No doubt HQ would frown on my stance but that is the way I would feel under those circumstances.

I wouldn't dream of sending anyone a nasty pm. It's not in me to do so.

Nor would most people EllanVannin

merlotgran
I like your style that's got me thinking.

We know that what we post on the open forum is not subject to copyright.
What about pms?

gilly
Did you know it's a pagan word?

What is a pagan word petra ? Bloody or “her” name ?

I’m intrigued. Should I be afraid ? ?

I still don't know who it was - thick me!

Charleygirl I remember that! Yes, the “where” would be a dead giveaway!

gilly
Have sent you a PM.

jalima
Have you looked in your in box?
gilly I hope you've blocked her.

Bellanonna she obviously knew more than my ophthalmic consultant re my Macular Degeneration and whether I could drive or not.

It was really cheeky, Cg!

I hate to tell her I was told last week I can still drive! I am not racing around the M25, I no longer drive in dusk and dark and nowadays I drive locally for convenience, not that it was any of her business!

I have received a couple unpleasant PMs ...but then as I have also managed to inadvertently put myself in the firing line on a couple of threads recently, I expect it is par for the course!
Never heard from Tom though! I feel quite neglected!

Yes, I have checked, thank you.
Sorry, I was watching something boring on the tv, well actually I fell asleep in front of the tv.

I complained about getting no PM from Tom, now I have received a number of emails, inviting me to join dating sites.?

Marydoll, you do have to be careful what you wish for! ?

Oh yeah, petra, I figured out who all of you are talking about. ?
I agree, she never has anything pleasant to say..
I won't "name and shame" though. She may just have a tough life.
However, that doesn't give her the right to be nasty. Blocking is best, I think.

Kittylester I m so curious now.
Stop drip feeding us none knowers? I’m not in the club ?

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