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dont you just hate waiting to go out!!!

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travelsafar Tue 18-Sept-18 18:05:27

I have to get ready soon to go to my son's birthday meal and
I am twiddling my thumbs until it is time to get ready and then go.

I hate being all dressed up and then having to hang around till its time. Anyone else like this?.

kathsue Tue 18-Sept-18 18:14:42

I know what you mean. I don't want to start anything I won't have time to finish or do housework or gardening where I might get hot and sweaty.

I use the waiting time looking on Gransnnet or playing solitaire.

lemongrove Tue 18-Sept-18 18:16:24

Me too travels.....the only thing to do is to look at GN for a while.

MawBroon Tue 18-Sept-18 18:17:35

Is it an age thing to allow too much time?
DH’s granny apparently used to be ready at least half an hour early, hat and gloves on, sitting on a chair in the hall!

Grandma70s Tue 18-Sept-18 18:27:38

I hate waiting for anything. I get furious (inside) about people being unpunctual, and I hate waiting for deliveries or anything like that. I was always impatient, but getting worse.

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 18:33:31

No, I'm always rushing around at the last minute, hot and bothered from a shower and drying my hair and realising that I can't put my jacket on or pick my bag up because I am waving my hands around trying to dry my nail varnish.

Must try harder.
I'm not usually late though - rather I'm Justine Time

merlotgran Tue 18-Sept-18 18:34:43

My mother used to do the hovering in the hall all ready to go out thing but as soon as she saw me pull up she'd dash back to the kitchen and sit down at the table. When I knocked on the door she'd get up and walk slowly to answer it as though she wasn't expecting me.

I didn't have the heart to tell her that the thin net curtain on the glass panel of her front door meant I could see her outline and everything she was doing. grin

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 18:41:50

I thought 'Oh, merlot's got a typo in that, thinking that your mother was having a quick vacuum around before she went out.

Like Kim of Kim and Aggie fame grin

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 18:42:11

excuse my typo

JudyJudy12 Tue 18-Sept-18 18:44:01

My mother does the same merlotgran.

I am often ready far too early maybe its another age thing.

BBbevan Tue 18-Sept-18 18:49:42

I have wasted thousands of hours of my life being ready too early. I have never been late for anything, but try very hard now to cut down waiting time.

BlueBelle Tue 18-Sept-18 19:47:09

I m always ready too early and I m usually the first there when meeting friends
I hate it when I m being picked up and they say 2 and are there at quarter past because I ve been ready and waiting since quarter to

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 19:48:59

Is there a thread for New Year's Resolutions yet?

Coolgran65 Tue 18-Sept-18 19:50:59

I have been so early at the airport for my flight that the earlier flight was just boarding........ I was allowing for traffic/ winter weather conditions etc. but even so, it's still only a 25 minute drive to the airport.

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 19:59:00

Airports are a different matter - I would always be early for a flight (circumstances permitting).

M0nica Tue 18-Sept-18 21:23:24

I am another 'Justine Time'.

I can always find several 5 - 10 minute jobs I can get done, all of them, in the few minutes before we go anywhere grin

NanKate Tue 18-Sept-18 21:30:23

Snap M0nica I have what I call 10 minute slots. If DH isn’t quite ready to go out I have a quick reccy at what I could do e.g.empty the dishwasher, fold some washing, sort some receipts, reorganise handbag etc.

If I am waiting outside to be collected by a friend I get out my IPhone and play one of the games apps I have downloaded. I never just stand there.

cornergran Tue 18-Sept-18 21:34:02

Another early person here. I blame a professional life run by appointment times. Mr C has also recently decided its necessary to be early. It’s fine, it’s what we do but why, oh why, are the majority of our friends late people?

Beau Tue 18-Sept-18 21:35:12

Not waiting at home because I never really go anywhere now where I need collecting but the weeks I must have spent waiting at Euston station over the last 20 years since DD moved up North ?
I cannot stop myself getting there an hour early 'just in case' ?

merlotgran Tue 18-Sept-18 22:02:49

Ha Ha, jalima. My mother's version of having a quick vacuum around would be to get out of the way while the cleaner did it. grin

Melanieeastanglia Tue 18-Sept-18 22:19:39

Yes, I find it awkward to get ready for exactly the right time but hate to be late so am usually ready far too early. Mostly, I just read a book until the departure time.

My grandmother (in the 1930's) used to get my mother and my aunt dressed up to go out and, because she didn't want them to get dirty, she'd have them stand on the doorstep sometimes for a few minutes before it was time to leave.

Jalima1108 Tue 18-Sept-18 22:42:08

Well done merlot's mother!

annep Thu 20-Sept-18 21:42:31

Jalima thats what I thought until I read your post and scrolled back lol.
What I hate about getting ready is my husband standing at rhe front door as soon as he is ready until I appear maybe 15 minutes later. Then I'll ask if he has checked the back door and the answer is no.

Jalima1108 Thu 20-Sept-18 22:01:01

Are we married to the same man?

annep Thu 20-Sept-18 22:20:37

?