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lollee Fri 25-May-18 21:10:46

This is a very difficult topic to write in a sensitive and pc way so before I begin I must stress that I mean no offence to anyone and am not in any way a racist or any other 'ist' of any kind.
I work with children and have recently begun transporting a young black girl to and from home, school and parental contact. She is in last year of primary school but is head and shoulders above the other kids and very mature, looking about 15. The problem is that she smells so very badly of BO that it is impossible to lessen the smell even with air con or windows open. Trapped in a car with her for an hour is extremely unpleasant but although I would be happy to have a discreet and sensitive word with her, I would probably lose my job. It should be done by parent, carer or social worker. This has never been a problem with the scores of other children of all races and cultures that we transport, only the odd whiff after a long, hot day, after all who hasn't at some time? I must add this is a problem for all the staff who drive and escort her but that none of us treat her any differently to any of the other children we work with. Any ideas or suggestions?

Framilode Thu 01-Nov-18 19:47:30

I was brought up in Africa and the africans we knew always said the english smelled of dead meat.

etheltbags1 Thu 01-Nov-18 21:18:49

I've just seen this thread for the first time and it made me think about an Indian gentleman who used to swim at our pool. He stunk very much but not so much of bo but Indian spices ans curry. This guy owns a takeaway. I assumed the smell was clinging to his head and beard but maybe in their culture they font mind smelling as much as British people do. I actually don't like strong smells of aftershave or perfume and most people I know drench themselves in stuff that smells. Were all different