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Do I look like a rebel?

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vampirequeen Tue 04-Jul-17 16:38:22

We visited a castle yesterday and, after high fiving the girl at the counter because we're English Heritage members, she told me to be careful on the steps and watch out for the molehills which to be fair she was warning everyone about. Then she said, 'And NO climbing on the walls!' I burst out laughing and she said that she'd met my sort before and we were worse than children. So we agreed that if I was very good and didn't climb on the walls she would open a jar of lemon curd for the sample table as I didn't like the rhubarb and ginger jam they had open.

So we looked around the castle and I only climbed on one little bit of wall wink because I wanted to fire a pretend arrow at an obnoxious spoilt little boy who needed to be back in the car and not ruining a brilliant castle for everyone else. True to her word she opened the lemon curd for me (although I didn't admit to the one little wall) grin.

What surprised me was the fact that she knew what type of granny I was. I dress quite conventionally and don't look wild but she totally saw through my disguise grin

It's not the first time me and DH have been warned off playing. When we took the children on a canal boat recently the guide told me and DH not to put our hands in the water but didn't mention it to the children or anyone else.

I admit to tree climbing, stream paddling and damming, water creature watching, whirling in a fairy grotto and hiding inside large overhanging trees but that's what having fun is all about. I just didn't think I looked the part grin

sunseeker Tue 04-Jul-17 16:41:13

I think the high five gave her a clue grin. Love your attitude - we don't know how long we are here for so may as well have fun while we are!

Greyduster Wed 05-Jul-17 08:41:32

Oh, God! So there are two of us?? grin

Teetime Wed 05-Jul-17 09:11:43

Three!

DanniRae Wed 05-Jul-17 09:20:25

Four!! grin

Disgruntled Wed 05-Jul-17 10:19:59

Five!! It must have been the glint in your eye, Vampire!

Deni1 Wed 05-Jul-17 10:28:31

could be the other way round as in being older we are pigeonholed as frail, gentle, obedient quiet souls so show any spirit and "Houston we have a problem" the thing is what problem do they think we have? and do we need supervising! ?

Granfran Wed 05-Jul-17 10:29:49

There are more of us out here than you think ?

Mauriherb Wed 05-Jul-17 10:35:11

There's a lot of us about. I think it's a friendly disposition, a smile , and a twinkle in the eye that give the game away. Long may it last !!

moxeyns Wed 05-Jul-17 10:35:49

Hahaha hope you blushed when sampling the lemon curd :D

sweetcakes Wed 05-Jul-17 10:49:49

I'm jealous but good for you that is how I wanted to be till I got ill.

Jalima1108 Wed 05-Jul-17 11:12:22

grin

We have been out with friends who are also in their 70s but seem to be 'Proper Grownup People'.
It's quite a revelation watching them and seeing how we should behave at our age.

Legs55 Wed 05-Jul-17 11:44:42

You have to grow older but you never have to grow upblush

Tallulah2 Wed 05-Jul-17 12:02:52

Saw this this morning, seemed appropriate for this thread!

Be crazy. Be stupid. Be silly. Be weird. Be whatever. Because life is too short to be anything but happy.
(anon)

sarahellenwhitney Wed 05-Jul-17 12:25:35

Vampire Queen Sounds like you should take more water with it.wink

vampirequeen Wed 05-Jul-17 12:36:16

Love it, Tallulah.

DH and I decided when we reached 50 that we'd had enough of being grown up and decided to grow down.

We met a wonderful couple when we were camping the other weekend. They were both in their late eighties and they refused point blank to be old even though their bodies were trying to grin They told us that their children, grandchildren and great children were far more grown up than they were and actually told them off for being 'silly'. They said they knew they wouldn't have that long left and were determined to fit in as many experiences as possible in the time they had although last year they had given in to their children and agreed to stay in the UK. Well they told their children it was because of what they wanted but really it was because their travel insurance shot up after their last escapade. They were in Switzerland and were given the opportunity to go on a bobsleigh. So of course they did but it crashed and they both ended up in hospital. "Only for a week or two," they stated. Now they are rediscovering the UK.

That's how we want to be at their age.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 05-Jul-17 12:55:52

Actually, as a guide in a museum where there some exhibits children and grown ups were allowed to touch and some they were not, I often used the trick of winking at grandparents while telling them in a strict tone of voice, please don't touch anything in this room.
It usually made both children and grandparents or parents giggle.

Also I remember only too well what it felt like being told as a child not to do something only to see a grown up do the very thing I had been told not to.

Jalima1108 Wed 05-Jul-17 14:49:27

Two elderly folks behaving disgracefully in public
grin

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/07/04/inuit-throat-singing-leaves-prince-charles-duchess-cornwall/

vampirequeen Wed 05-Jul-17 15:01:02

Oh no these warnings are very much aimed at me grin. I would never damage anything but sometimes I just have to touch things.

I don't want to sound all dippy hippy but sometimes when I touch something I seem to appreciate/understand it more like it has an energy of it's own. I would suggest that you always touch a standing stone if possible and definitely touch the Angel of the North if you get the opportunity. I haven't touched the Baby of the North yet so I don't know if that has energy too. Perhaps that is just so cute it doesn't need to be touched grin

I think that's why children touch everything. They stop because adults tell them not to and then forget how important touching is.

Oh dear I think I am sounding dippy hippy now I've talked about 'energy'. But think of it this way. When you see a lovely fluffy dog it's very nice but then when you also stroke it it's even nicer. I feel the same way about objects.

lesley4357 Wed 05-Jul-17 15:39:37

The lovely thing about having grandchildren is that you never have to grow up!

lovebeigecardigans1955 Wed 05-Jul-17 15:54:00

But what does a rebel granny look like? Denim (ripped or not), tattoos, tied dyed t-shirt, big earrings, red lipstick, bit of an extreme hairstyle, what we used to call bovver boots?
These are often worn by the young these days anyway so I'm damned if I can see how else we can come across as rebellious. As has been pointed out if must be your joie de vivre! So keep it going.

Cornishgirl777 Wed 05-Jul-17 17:43:02

I need a few lessons in being more rebellious...the worst thing I've managed to do today is shout back at the self scanning thingy in the supermarket. In Marks it always asked if you've swiped your Sparks card too early,and every time I take great delight in shouting "not yet" back. Suggestions on how to improve my rebelliousness,please.

Theoddbird Wed 05-Jul-17 20:14:37

Please don't change smile Us rebels are in short supply and I have always encouraged my children to steer away from the conventional smile I will encourage my grandchildren to do the same smile

Greyduster Wed 05-Jul-17 20:15:18

We were walking back from a cricket match on Monday evening and I stopped to look at the local river on the way back to the car. Before DH could stop me I started to climb over the fencing (it wasn't very high). "What the Hell are you doing?" he said. "I just want to see if there's a likely spot where I can get down to fish" I said. "There's a bally great drop, you'll kill yourself" he said (I hadn't noticed that!) and hauled me back over, much to the amusement of several people passing by! He tries to keep me away from rivers - they are like a magnet. I can't see one without wanting to be in it!

Deedaa Wed 05-Jul-17 22:04:40

When I worked in M&S I could often pick out people who would respond to comments like "Oh dear we've got trouble here!" the others would say "How can you talk to them like that?" but somehow you can always recognise a kindred spirit.