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Should we be using our 'best' china?

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granma47 Fri 28-Oct-16 10:33:53

We were given our 'best' china for wedding presents 47 years ago and have used it for dinner parties and special meals in the past. However, it now sits in the cupboard and is rarely used, even at Christmas. I don't think it has ever been in the dishwasher as we treated it as something special. Walking past charity shop windows we see many sets of china which have probably been 'saved' until on-one wants them. I am sure many other Gransnetters will be in the same situation. To use or not to use?

storynanny Tue 01-Nov-16 10:00:04

Use your best clothes perfume ,stuff etc every day as today might be your best day
Before I adopted this manyra I had clothes go out of fashion whilst saving them.
Ps by best clothes I dont mean ball gowns! Just that wearing my nice clothes everyday makes me feel good about myself ( see thread re children who emigrate!)

MargaretX Tue 01-Nov-16 10:47:46

I'm still using my brown Denby which I bought when I lived in the Uk 20 years ago. Its so useful and has 3 sizes of plate and bowls and mugs to match which the fine dinner services never had.

I have a best coffee/tea service whch I got out for Bridge afternoons. Unfortunately illness and death has put a stop to these regular bridge afternoons and I now only play in the Bridge Club. Still the cups and saucers come out for family occasions, its just that now I don't do roast dinners for 8-12 people and my DDs have pure white plates etc.

Hilltopgran Tue 01-Nov-16 11:00:08

I looked on eBay and there are over 300 items of my 50 year old Doulton dinner service on offer, and as it is dishwasher proof I think after reading this thread it is time to get it out more often!

notanan Tue 01-Nov-16 12:30:48

I inherited some very good crystal a few years back, it had never been used and stored perfectly, for what? so that I could one day inherit and not use it?

So I used it, and yes a fair amount got broken (not because of the kids though! looking at you DH-Butterfingers!)

But it got incorporated into our lives, used and appreciated.

I don't keep anything that I dont enjoy and use or display.

Jaxie Wed 02-Nov-16 07:51:21

Use all your stuff and don't grieve if it gets broken. No pockets in a shroud.

cornergran Wed 02-Nov-16 08:25:36

Downsizing made us realise how much 'stuff' we had and how much we didn't use. All the old scratchy towels were replaced by the ones kept for best, bliss. The china I didn't really like but used every day as it didn't matter if any was broken (it never was!) was given away. Now we use things we love, including crystal glasses. Yes, there are occasional accidents but the enjoyment of a meal from pretty Portmeirion plates or clean looking plain white, according to how I feel that day, makes it more than worth it. We also use the pretty embroidered tablecloths worked by my talented mother in law. It doesn't take that long to iron them and the linen is such good quality. we also use easy care cloths, depends on the mood, but nothing is not used now. Have recently taken the same approach with clothes, really enjoy choosing what to wear each day now. It's made a huge difference to use or wear things I like, rather than things I think I should use.