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NanKate Sat 28-Nov-15 16:53:13

I always thought I was a decisive, get on with things, sort of person but lately I have to push myself to do paperwork that is mounting up. I need to sort out the Christmas card labels, it might only take me 10 minutes but I have been thinking about it for a week.

I am the first to agree to go out for coffee, the cinema or shopping, so I am not depressed just plain bl**dy lazy. grin

Anyone else have my problem ?

NanKate Sun 29-Nov-15 17:13:35

Hurray Hurray - I have printed off the Xmas labels, took me about an hour but they are all ready to go on the cards, which I still have to write.

Now to another tricky question - do any of you do a Round Robin Xmas letter updating friends with family news? I once received a rather nasty reply from a friend who said she loathed them. Although she could have put it in nicer words, I just wonder if she was right.

When I was working flat out and had family at home it was the only way I could update my friends, I just had so little time. I looked forward to receiving news from them.

I now only send the round robin to the few older relatives I write to, as they seem interested and write a personal note in the card to the rest on my list.

I feel bad that I sent those RR letters out for years, when perhaps they were unwelcome.

Bellanonna Sun 29-Nov-15 17:24:01

Don't worry Alea, there's always tomorrow ....

rosesarered Sun 29-Nov-15 18:05:41

Sorry NanKate, I hate them too.

NanKate Sun 29-Nov-15 20:25:23

Don't apologise Roses I am leaning in that direction myself. This year I may only send 3 or 4 and just put a personal note to everyone else.

rosesarered Sun 29-Nov-15 20:36:04

I know it's done to save time ( round robins) and to avoid repeating all the same things, but that is what makes them so impersonal, I would rather have a quickly scrawled remark or two aimed just at me.However, that is just me, others may well enjoy hearing all the family news. tchsmile

rosequartz Sun 29-Nov-15 20:36:58

I hate the smug round robin letters, but I quite like the chatty, newsy ones and enjoy catching up with what friends and their DC have been doing all year.

tinaf1 Sun 29-Nov-15 21:27:29

Sorry Nankate I'm not keen on round robins either

NanKate Sun 29-Nov-15 21:33:41

No problem Tina I think I am going to have that RR stuffed for Xmas and never seen again. tchshock

Synonymous Mon 30-Nov-15 02:43:47

A tidy desk is a sign of a disturbed mind! grin

Bellanonna Mon 30-Nov-15 10:41:25

Did you make that one up Synonymous? I take from it that I am completely undisturbed of mind smile

Bellanonna Mon 30-Nov-15 10:49:15

Round robins are dreadful btw. I only get one, a couple of typed pages about the wider family, boasting about their exploits, achievements, the writer's various holidays, myriad health problems, personal problems, yawn yawn. I write a note in with cards and although it gets a bit tedious at least it's personal to the receiver and as I keep their letters from the previous year I can comment appropriately. Note to self - buy some cards and stamps !

whitewave Mon 30-Nov-15 10:49:26

Taken me 3 days to finally doing the bathroom -I hate doing the bathroom

mumofmadboys Mon 30-Nov-15 16:18:29

I actually like receiving round robins! I enjoy friends and relatives news. I agree some sound a bit like a CV! I tend to send some RR but mainly to friends I know want an update on us all. We are a large family so there is usually news to tell!

tinaf1 Mon 30-Nov-15 17:56:38

In case anyone is interested ( I know how busy you all are doing all those little tasks) the ding table is now awash with paperwork and unwritten Christmas cards I'd laugh if I could summon up the energy

rosequartz Mon 30-Nov-15 17:58:44

Gasp!
Christmas cards, I suppose I should have started writing them

annodomini Mon 30-Nov-15 18:35:45

At last I've fitted the new loo seat. That wasn't a problem - getting the old one off was a real headache because of corrosion on the fittings. However, all is now well and the seat is ... in use!

Cherrytree59 Mon 30-Nov-15 23:21:09

Procrastination Possibly a winter affliction. Dark with awful weather. We crank up the central heating and lethargy sets in.
But come the spring we will be hopping a round like little bunnies and writing threads about Spring cleaning tbgrin

DeeWhyO Wed 02-Dec-15 00:05:29

Just read this thread & it's really made me chuckle.. thanks Gransnetters, you've totally cheered me up - almost made me forget about all the Christmas cards/present shopping/food shopping/present wrapping etc. jobs, they'll just get done when they get done. At least I now know I'm not the only one putting them off …tchwink

DeeWhyO Wed 02-Dec-15 00:16:46

PS - I like getting a bit of news with Christmas cards & maybe an update photo but just not too much news. We get one hilarious letter from a husband, all very tongue in cheek, always look forward to it. One year he decided enough was enough and everyone complained they missed it!

seasider Wed 02-Dec-15 06:43:30

I was told a cluttered desk is the sign of a genius so I live by that mantra! Like Anno when I was studying I was always up the night before an assignment was due in!