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Nonnie Mon 02-Nov-15 10:33:40

Do they achieve anything? If I see a very long thread which I am not already on I am sometimes put off reading all of it so I don't! Therefore I don't post on it (unless I quickly state I haven't read but think that was only once). If I have been on a thread but feel it has all been said I just stop reading it.

Is it that I am lazy or just got better things to do? (going to hide)

Funny/amusing thread are of course different.

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 15:51:42

I can too, well, I can't remember which threads, but I remember it happening; I've probably taken part in such myself. However, if and when I have done that it has been because the thread was getting nasty and the so-called derailment has been a deliberate attempt to get things back onto a more equable footing, either discussing something else or going back to the original theme without the bitchiness.

I don't flatter myself I've ever derailed redirected a thread all by myself but I have consciously taken part in trying to calm things down at times.

And I am not ashamed of so doing.

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 15:52:35

As for facetiousness... It's allowed. Free speech and all that.

Nonnie Mon 02-Nov-15 16:18:21

Just like to make the point that when I do have 'something better to do' I do it! grin

Ana Mon 02-Nov-15 16:26:28

Sometimes it seems the odd facetious comment is seen as an affront to the earnest nature of whatever thread it's been posted on, possibly in an attempt to lighten the mood.

I think it's rather worrying that some people believe they know what motivates others and can't wait to snap their heads off...

Elrel Mon 02-Nov-15 16:30:35

Eloethan - with you about the facetious cryptic little posts which sometimes deteriorate into a private chat. Not worth scrolling through, like some teens' texts. Boards for everyone, not just some self selected in group!!
Gransnet is great as distraction when unwell or sleepless. Long may it flourish!!

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 17:36:56

Why shouldn't gransnetters who have got to know each other have chats on the forum? So long as they are not abusing someone else, surely that is within the forum guidelines?

And as for cryptic, what happened to ignoring stuff you don't understand, shrugging it off, thinking "wonder what she's on about? oh well what the heck?"

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 17:37:41

That 'you' include me, btw. I'm useless at cryptic stuff.

M0nica Mon 02-Nov-15 18:05:56

I usally reckon that by the time a thread has had 30+ responses all that can be said on the topic has probably been said and posters are just saying the same thing in different words.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 02-Nov-15 18:33:03

Hello Ana. What you having for tea tonight?

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 02-Nov-15 18:33:48

Hiya Bags. You been doing any hacking and slaying?

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 02-Nov-15 18:35:05

Go on then Tegan. Tell us what threads you mean. Seeing as they make you so sad !!!!

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 02-Nov-15 18:35:22

hmm

Tegan Mon 02-Nov-15 18:37:52

No I won't jingle. And it's comments like that that make me pretty much avoid gransnet these days.#lifestooshort

rosesarered Mon 02-Nov-15 18:38:46

grin that's a facetious grin btw

Ana Mon 02-Nov-15 18:48:10

You must read the threads though, Tegan, you seem to be always ready and willing to disagree with my posts on certain of them!

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 18:59:39

Hacking, of a sort, with a hedge cutter, jings. No slaying unless you count carving an already dead and cooked chicken.

thatbags Mon 02-Nov-15 19:01:17

How's your bike riding going?

Talking of bikes, DD2’s monocycle is still in our shed. With a flat tyre.

durhamjen Mon 02-Nov-15 20:49:31

If you carry on like this, you'll be annoying Nonnie again with another long thread!

Ana Mon 02-Nov-15 21:39:25

Not at all - she did say that funny/amusing threads are different!

smile

thatbags Tue 03-Nov-15 06:12:45

There's a difference between being annoying and being annoyed. It is very rare to read a post where someone seems to have been trying to be annoying; less rare to see posts where the poster seems to be annoyed about someone else's post.

Way of the world.

Nonnie Tue 03-Nov-15 10:23:22

Bags do you have a view on whether if a person constantly 'misinterprets' one's posts they are deliberately being annoying? No, not you!