Hello. My wife and I used to post frequently, and join conversations, she the actual gran, I was the secretary. So I am a granpa. We had lots of good chat, advice, and occasionally put in our twopenn'orth. My wife, Gillie, died suddenly in February, my worst day ever imaginable. I've been thro' all the anger, despair, disbelief and so many other feelings, too numerous to mention. I unearthed a few really great friends since the event, folks lost in the mists of time, but each supportive in their way. I also am surrounded by a super family. I am gently treading the water, so you grans, forgive me for poking my nose in from time to time. As a pair, we found Gransnet to be entertaining, informative and sometimes, just good fun. So thanks for that. I return as a substitute gran. Take care.