Gransnet forums

Chat

What or Pardon-Neither!!!!

(134 Posts)
trisher Tue 14-Jul-15 10:59:45

There's a Gransnet poll on facebook asking would you say "What" or "Pardon". I'm sorry but if you said "Pardon" when I was growing up you would be answered by "Why? What have you done?" Pardon is used to apologise when you have done something socially unacceptable. "What" is plain rude. The correct form of speech if you don't hear is "Excuse me I didn't hear." or "I'm sorry I didn't hear". Come on Gransnet get someone who at least knows how to use language. What really surprised me was 74% said they would say "Pardon" Really!!!

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 14:52:01

I bet Nigel Havers doesn't babble,. A lot of babbling on Gransnet this week shock blush

Ana Wed 22-Jul-15 16:07:03

If you'd seen him during his stint on I'm a Celebrity Get me Out of Here you wouldn't be of the same opinion, Gemmag. Babble, sulk, throw a strop - he did them all!

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 18:11:19

What!!! Nigel throwing a strop, shouting, jumping up and down but never babbling. shock

rosesarered Wed 22-Jul-15 19:26:53

I bumped into a woman in the shops the other day and we both said sorry!
only the British eh? yer what? I can't hear you.

rosesarered Wed 22-Jul-15 19:30:01

I remember an episode of Sharpe ( Sean Bean looking sexy) when he meets the King, and says " eh?" To him. the king says to everyone in a loud voice
" Sharpe says eh?!" Then he laughs and so does all the court and Sharpe relaxes.

Grannytwoshoes Fri 24-Jul-15 10:36:07

Surely there are many other more important issues rather than discussion of what/pardon!! I was brought up to say scent not perfume: loo not toilet: sitting room not lounge! But really at the end of the day what does it matter. My darling gchildren say toilet and think I'm odd to say loo and I wouldn't think any lthe less of my lovely d in law if she said pardon. I have a dear friend whose posh partner actually reprimanded her use of pardon...sad! My dear pa always said the sign of a gentleman is to be able to talk to anyone at any time at any level. Life's odd ain't it !,!

Elegran Fri 24-Jul-15 11:05:33

Does it matter that it doesn't matter? There are many important things being discussed on here, some of them quite vehemently. A few inconsequential subjects are a welcome diversion. Not every real-life conversation is about weighty matters either, but it doesn't stop us talking to friends (and having a laugh about such things as farting )

Grannytwoshoes Fri 24-Jul-15 11:17:47

You are quite right Elegran...just feeling my way! I'm new to all this. Perhaps first line was a bit heavy handed...my serious discussions tend to be a bit light weight! Ps. Can fart with the best of them