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What or Pardon-Neither!!!!

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trisher Tue 14-Jul-15 10:59:45

There's a Gransnet poll on facebook asking would you say "What" or "Pardon". I'm sorry but if you said "Pardon" when I was growing up you would be answered by "Why? What have you done?" Pardon is used to apologise when you have done something socially unacceptable. "What" is plain rude. The correct form of speech if you don't hear is "Excuse me I didn't hear." or "I'm sorry I didn't hear". Come on Gransnet get someone who at least knows how to use language. What really surprised me was 74% said they would say "Pardon" Really!!!

Grannytwoshoes Fri 24-Jul-15 11:17:47

You are quite right Elegran...just feeling my way! I'm new to all this. Perhaps first line was a bit heavy handed...my serious discussions tend to be a bit light weight! Ps. Can fart with the best of them

Elegran Fri 24-Jul-15 11:05:33

Does it matter that it doesn't matter? There are many important things being discussed on here, some of them quite vehemently. A few inconsequential subjects are a welcome diversion. Not every real-life conversation is about weighty matters either, but it doesn't stop us talking to friends (and having a laugh about such things as farting )

Grannytwoshoes Fri 24-Jul-15 10:36:07

Surely there are many other more important issues rather than discussion of what/pardon!! I was brought up to say scent not perfume: loo not toilet: sitting room not lounge! But really at the end of the day what does it matter. My darling gchildren say toilet and think I'm odd to say loo and I wouldn't think any lthe less of my lovely d in law if she said pardon. I have a dear friend whose posh partner actually reprimanded her use of pardon...sad! My dear pa always said the sign of a gentleman is to be able to talk to anyone at any time at any level. Life's odd ain't it !,!

rosesarered Wed 22-Jul-15 19:30:01

I remember an episode of Sharpe ( Sean Bean looking sexy) when he meets the King, and says " eh?" To him. the king says to everyone in a loud voice
" Sharpe says eh?!" Then he laughs and so does all the court and Sharpe relaxes.

rosesarered Wed 22-Jul-15 19:26:53

I bumped into a woman in the shops the other day and we both said sorry!
only the British eh? yer what? I can't hear you.

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 18:11:19

What!!! Nigel throwing a strop, shouting, jumping up and down but never babbling. shock

Ana Wed 22-Jul-15 16:07:03

If you'd seen him during his stint on I'm a Celebrity Get me Out of Here you wouldn't be of the same opinion, Gemmag. Babble, sulk, throw a strop - he did them all!

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 14:52:01

I bet Nigel Havers doesn't babble,. A lot of babbling on Gransnet this week shock blush

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 10:05:32

And it goes down with a gurgling chuckle mc-chuckle.

Elegran Wed 22-Jul-15 09:21:59

Though sometimes the stream does go down the drain.

Elegran Wed 22-Jul-15 09:20:44

It is the stream of consciousness, alea

Elegran Wed 22-Jul-15 09:19:11

I must say that Nigel Havers is one of the bits of posh totty on TV (or used to be, I don't think I've seen him in anything lately. Is he getting past it?)

Alea Wed 22-Jul-15 09:18:41

Exactly Elegran and when "havering" leads to Nigel Havers, which I always thought more of a statement than a proper name . . . . grin

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 09:12:03

Good bit of 'averin'....

See! I told you! They're takin' over.

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 09:11:23

Good bit o' 'averin' never did nobody no 'arm.

Oh 'eck! Apostrophes are taking over.

Elegran Wed 22-Jul-15 09:09:25

You mean when everyone starts havering, alea?

Alea Wed 22-Jul-15 08:15:31

You know when threads get quite surreal? hmm

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 07:59:46

Actually, I suspect he would say any of those if it were in his script. wink

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 07:59:05

Oh, him. Just googled. Shrug.

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 07:58:29

Who is Nigel Havers?

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 07:57:08

Forget to add that Nigel Havers would NEVER say 'pardon' or 'what' did you say or 'pardon'!!!!. smile

Gemmag Wed 22-Jul-15 07:52:06

Don't you mean Nigel Havers?, didn't know he was Scottish. He doesn't speak with a Scottish accent, sounds quite post really confused

thatbags Wed 22-Jul-15 07:23:45

Havers (pronounced hayvers; Scottish for 'nonsense'!)

Ana Tue 21-Jul-15 18:57:19

Pardon??? shock

Gemmag Tue 21-Jul-15 18:47:02

Pardon is an absolute no no for all occasions, pardon me is even worse.
What kind of person say's 'what', this is very vulgar.
Class system is alive and kicking, I'm afraid!.
Poor Roxannediane, teacher not so grammatically correct after all but 'loo' is fine. shock winktennis