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Anne58 Fri 25-Apr-14 19:38:36

On Monday, at about 5am Mr P will be sallying forth to Hampshire to start a new contract, so we are back to him living away during the week, home at weekends.

With both of us back in the land of the employed it should mean that we will be able to get back on track financially, but I will miss him. sad

Plus (and here's the worst bit!) He will be wearing shirts! Which in turn means that when he gets home on Friday evenings, I will have to wash, dry and (forgive my using this dreadful word, ladies) IRON shock them by Sunday evening ready for the early start again on Monday morning.

bikergran Sat 26-Apr-14 18:13:38

phoenix good luck with everything, I have missed your thread on finding employment..not been in much lately...I shall catch up on it lol..then I know what Im talking about lol smile

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 26-Apr-14 18:28:17

Best thing about DH retiring - the fact that no more shirts to iron. That and the freedom from packed lunch making.

Sympathy Phoenix.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 26-Apr-14 18:29:11

Def get more shirts so you can do them in the week.

Anne58 Sat 26-Apr-14 19:02:24

Roger, wilco!

PS Just put a batch of shirts through the wash with a sachet of Glow White added, not bad result, but any advice on how to get rid of yellow underarm deodorant stains? I put a couple of mine in too, but still have yellow under the arms. I'm a clean phoenix, honestly!

Ana Sat 26-Apr-14 19:07:29

Pepsodent? grin
Sorry, probably before your time, phoenix!

Agus Sat 26-Apr-14 19:13:03

Milton tablets.

Dragonfly1 Sat 26-Apr-14 19:34:31

Biotex. Swear by it.

goldengirl Sat 26-Apr-14 19:56:53

Perhaps I'm lucky but DH washes his own clothes and I iron anything that needs doing! We've both lived on our own in our 'yoof' so perhaps it's a spin off from those heady days.

rosesarered Sat 26-Apr-14 20:30:26

ana the pepsodent is for teeth only grin but you knew that.wink

Ana Sat 26-Apr-14 20:32:47

Not sold any more anyway, is it? grin Might have been worth a try...wink

Purpledaffodil Sat 26-Apr-14 21:09:42

Having been in that position, two sets of shirts, underwear and socks are essential. Could never manage a weekend turnaround especially in the winter! And it will give you something to do in those empty evenings. Apart from not having to watch bloke TV and eat bloke food of coursegrin. There are definite advantages to time apart, which become very obvious when it stops! Retirement = half the money and twice the husband smile

merlotgran Sat 26-Apr-14 21:19:43

I like that sentiment Purple. When my MIL was alive and I was muttering oaths because DH had tarried too long at the local hostelry she said I'd probably not get the husband I wanted until he was retired. I can't remember exactly what I said but I know it ended in ....off!

She wasn't way off the mark.

Charleygirl Sat 26-Apr-14 22:13:33

phoenix I do not think that it is possible to get rid of deodorant/perspiration stains on shirts. As others have said, when the coffers are healthier, slowly replace them.

It is a long time since I heard but never forgot "you'll wonder where the yellow went when you wash your teeth wih Pepsodent".

Charleygirl Sun 27-Apr-14 14:55:33

phoenix a big wave to Mr P as he will be on his travels this evening to the B& B so that he is bright as a button tomorrow to start the new job. Hopefully it is not far from his place of work. Digby and Maurice will miss him but give them more space on the bed.

kittylester Sun 27-Apr-14 16:15:47

Good luck to MrP as he starts this new phase of your lives. wine

Glad to hear you are enjoying your job phoenix and you seem to be getting them under control. grin

Don't forget we are here during this next week should you need us. flowers

Deedaa Sun 27-Apr-14 22:34:23

I hope your job continues to go well phoenix and I hope MrP settles into his. Good luck! wine

Anne58 Sun 27-Apr-14 22:43:58

Thank you all!

Charleygirl he will be setting off in the morning (he always does that, would rather get up very early than go the night before!), but his shirts are ironed and on hangers under a plastic cover thing so that they don't get crumpled in the case.

He has a good supply of clean underwear (just in case of bus related incidents), his shoes are polished and everything all ready for the morning!

His alarm is set for 3.30, mine for 7.15 but no doubt I will get up and do some token blundering about before he sets off. Then of course I will go back to bed, which is where I'm off to now.

Good night all moon !

Icyalittle Sun 27-Apr-14 23:17:51

I don't know how I missed the fact that you have a job at last phoenix - that's great, and it sounds as if it is going well too. Well done! wine flowers
The working away for Mr P is a pain, I know, we have done it off and on for 40 years, including the getting up at crack of sparrers to head off. You'll get back into that routine soon too, but extra shirts definitely the way to go. (When I was the one working away, I tried taking the ironing away with me occasionally so I didn't have to do it at the weekend. Didn't work, the light was too bad or the room too small though).

Charleygirl Mon 28-Apr-14 09:41:55

phoenix today is going to be a long day for Mr.P, such a long drive and then coping with a new job in a new town or city. Very good luck to him.

The house will appear to be very empty when you come home from work this evening. On the plus side you can do whatever you like.

Lona Mon 28-Apr-14 10:39:52

phoenix None of this stuff really compares to the satisfaction of being able to pay your bills.

Good luck to you both sunshine

Bez Mon 28-Apr-14 10:47:23

Hope all this goes well with the jobs Phoenix is it a long term contract?
As to the deodorant under the arms - I found if I was very liberal with washing up liquid on the affecting part and washed on a higher temp all was well. I now use a block of soap I get here. Le Chat- similar to the Sunlight block my mother used and I rub that under the SMS each time I wash a shirt.
I think some deodorants are worse than others for staining and making the fabric go stiff.