Surprise Phone Call

Tell her they will be wonderful if she ever falls on her face

BlueBelle Ha ha ha!!
Bekind I suggest you ask how it went, is she ok and is she pleased with the result, and make no other comment/give no other opinion!!!

Just ask her if she’s happy with them, then tell her you are happy for her if it makes her happy.

If that is what she wants and they make her happy, be happy for her. Ask if there is anything she needs as she will be limited in what she is able to do for 4-6 weeks. Hopefully she will appreciate your support.

Be careful when wearing a brooch.

Oh! Well I suppose general hope you are feeling ok and pleased with the outcome. Agree with others that you make no comment other than that!

Try not to laugh.
I'm sorry. I can't think how I would respond. other than "Oh. right. ok"

I know, right? Awkward!

That is really funny! Makes me relax!

She might be fore warning you Bekind for when you next see her, with huge boobs, like Jordan!
When she rings say, "That's nice dear".
Ha! Only joking!

Buy her a card, saying 'Its twins!'

Oh dear there is no set response to a statement like that is there. Could be a very patronising " that's nice dear" as Buffybee said.
Can't get the image of Jordan out of my head now

If she's your DiL, she must be married to your son. I would be wondering what he thinks.

I REALLY feel awkward talking to my son about it! I'll be seeing them on Saturday since I'm babysitting for them. They are going to a company party. Guess it will be the big reveal!

Maybe she's had issues with small breasts .I have aclose friend who always says she has never felt"womanly" because she was an A cup ,I on the other hand was a double d and desperate to be smaller .Thankfully I lost weight and went down to a c/d cup .Just tell her you hope it does what she hopes it will .Its not the big deal it used to be

It is good you are forewarned of the call. Avoid saying anything disapproving at all. Good luck. I can imagine it would be difficult having any conversation with your son about it.

It’s essentially no different from having something done to your teeth or having a new hair colour or style.
I would just ask if she’s pleased with the outcome.
If she is, I’d say ‘great!’ in an enthusiastic tone.
If she says no, then I’d say something reassuring like ‘I expect the change will take a bit of getting used to.’
Supplementary questions could be along the lines of ‘have you been in much discomfort?’ ‘How did they decide what size to give you?’

What I would want to know is whether the procedure necessitates buying a whole new wardrobe full of tops, but I’m not sure I’d actually ask that

well, a whole new lot of bras at least!

Perhaps she has had self-esteem issues and this may boost her self-confidence.
Unless she ends up looking enormous a la Jordan, just say 'that looks really good, dear'.

When you say “seeing them” on Saturday is that the couple or the new boobies? Wouldn’t like to be shown.

Perhaps she rang you because if she didn't tell you, you might not notice, beyond a vague feeling she looked slightly different. Imagine spending all that money and then no-one noticing

Very good advice from everyone, and a little levity! I'll let you all know how it goes!

I don't think it's the same as a new hairstyle.

Maybe she didn't want people squinting at her, wondering if she'd had an op or just got a padded bra?

I think it's a little different because it is major surgery! Always a risk.