I also live in hope nina and kitty and not just about SiL Though he is high on the list at the moment. He rang my D one evening this week moaning how stressed he was with foreign business trips, 3 before Ch......s, and we were hoping his new love is giving him hassle at being left at home. she does not know anyone where they live and she cannot find a job as where they live now, as ex pats, locals are given priority. However they are going to New York for aforementioned festivities and he has managed to wangle for her to go to Vancouver with him on his next trip.