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Daddima Sun 21-Feb-16 17:02:54

My friend has just told me that she can't go to sleep unless she has checked that the cushions on her sofa are positioned with the " zip side" at the bottom.
I cannot hang anything out to dry unless the two pegs are of matching colours, and preferably match the colour of the garment.

Anniebach Sun 21-Feb-16 17:08:41

If it really troubles you so you will not use pegs of a different colour if there are only two,left then you have OCD, the majority of people do

Ana Sun 21-Feb-16 17:11:22

The majority of people have OCD? Really?

Daddima Sun 21-Feb-16 17:13:20

I have purchased a big bag of wooden pegs, all the same! How I shall enjoy next summer.

grannylyn65 Sun 21-Feb-16 17:35:39

I certainly don't, I know at 67 I am never going to be an organised person!! And, I have never ever spring cleaned blush

petra Sun 21-Feb-16 17:42:22

Aren't the zips always at the bottom?

Lavande Sun 21-Feb-16 17:45:09

Oh thank goodness! I have to have matching colour pegs and cushions placed with zips on the bottom and the tea-towel straight and .......can't bear to go on.

Bellanonna Sun 21-Feb-16 17:48:53

I don't even think about peg colours. Just grateful if I have enough and they don't snap as I put them into something heavy. I do have to get out of bed and go downstairs if I think I've forgotten to check that the row of hob buttons are all facing the same way. But there's a practical reason for that though - if one was out of alignment the gas would be on. I also have to make sure I've turned the washing machine off after reading about the fire potential. And I have often fretted on the way to a holiday in case I didn't check the hob, had left a light on, or a window open. I've actually rung my daughter to go and check for me. I've also had to stop the car just to check the boot. Again.
I don't spring clean as such either grannylyn65, so that's at least two of us.

Bellanonna Sun 21-Feb-16 17:50:56

Petra, maybe she means the cushions you lean on, I,e. at the back of you, where the zips need to be at the bottom.

tanith Sun 21-Feb-16 17:55:11

Isn't it normal to put cushions with zips at the bottom then?

Luckygirl Sun 21-Feb-16 17:56:38

Good heavens - you would not last a moment in our tip!! The tea towel usually lands on the floor! As for cushion zips and matching pegs.....the mind boggles! I have never given either even a passing thought.

whitewave Sun 21-Feb-16 18:00:57

Nor me lucky that is so weird!

Greymary Sun 21-Feb-16 18:12:56

I'm with you grannylyn65.
I'm just glad I have enough pegs when I hang washing, try to keep the teatowels hung tidily, make sure all is turned off at night, but I don't count my chips or peas as a friend does.
I will add that OCD is a serious issue and life limiting condition so I would never treat it as a simple 'quirk' of someone's character.

ninathenana Sun 21-Feb-16 18:13:52

I can't think of anything that has to be "just so" in my house.

tanith Sun 21-Feb-16 18:18:16

oh dear maybe I have OCD and didn't know it. wink

Katek Sun 21-Feb-16 19:18:37

I just use the tumble drier-seemples....no pegs! My father, on the other hand, used to measure the size of the holes in the pegs so that they fitted the clothes line.

Anniebach Sun 21-Feb-16 19:34:42

OCD has many degrees of severity , if one is compelled to do something one has OCD Only if it makes life difficult do people become aware that they have it , so yes Ana, really

Anniebach Sun 21-Feb-16 19:37:22

And it doesn't have to mean one is obsessed with cleaning or tidying up or washing hands countless times

Ana Sun 21-Feb-16 19:39:43

So you're sticking with your assertion that most people have OCD, ab. I don't agree, but it's an interesting point of view...

Anniebach Sun 21-Feb-16 19:43:07

We agree to disagree Ana , so much is said of it now that it's connected to the most distressing forms only

reikilady Sun 21-Feb-16 19:56:08

I have to check the back door several times and look in the kitchen to make sure everything is switched off but apart from that I am pretty much laid back .

Bellanonna Sun 21-Feb-16 20:03:10

That's not OCD Ethel. Checking is fairly common and I think it comes from our anxiety that nothing should go wrong. There are obviously more extreme versions of checking with ritualistic behaviour but I think careful checking of locked doors is sensible these days

FarNorth Sun 21-Feb-16 20:17:17

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - surely if it's not making life difficult it's not a disorder?

watermeadow Sun 21-Feb-16 20:23:56

I'm anal but that's not OCD. I have to have straight lines (like a pile of papers) parallel, everything in order and symmetrical. I'm never late, write lots of lists and have to have my life organised well in advance.
I don't keep checking things nor stick to rigid timetables but I hate surprises. Do not drop in unexpectedly, I'll be really upset if I haven't Hoovered or made a cake.

shysal Sun 21-Feb-16 20:30:10

When I eat a packet of crisps, I empty it onto a plate. I then separate whole and broken ones, eating the pieces in size order starting with the smallest.blush

Radio volume and air temperature in the car must always be on an even number.

Of course cushion zips must always be at the bottom, and they are plumped the moment someone vacates the sofa. Everything will be covered in dust but must be placed 'just so'.

Oh! and I count the bathroom tiles every time I have a bath.