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Hotel etiquette - has it been forgotten?

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ordinarygirl Thu 18-Jun-26 14:18:28

I've always tried to be quiet in hotel corridors and not have the volume too high on the hotel TV. Yet last time we stayed there was a family with young children still shouting and screaming after mid-night. No attempt by the parents to get the children to be quiet. We had 2 nights of loud noises. Then when they left we had a group of women going back and forth between the rooms and having discussions in the corridors.
The spyhole in the bedroom door was a good 6 inches above my eyes. I did not enter the corridor as I had a short nightie.

Was it just bad luck or have people forgotten that hotels are shared spaces and people need to act accordingly ?

Gingster Sat 20-Jun-26 10:52:27

My brother 85 and SIL 83 stayed in a premier Inn last weekend and were kept awake by a couple having a long lasting row/fisty cuffs in the corridor. Then later by a couple having a noisy, amorous time in the next room. They phoned down to the reception who came to investigate.

mokryna Sat 20-Jun-26 15:06:55

Gingster

My brother 85 and SIL 83 stayed in a premier Inn last weekend and were kept awake by a couple having a long lasting row/fisty cuffs in the corridor. Then later by a couple having a noisy, amorous time in the next room. They phoned down to the reception who came to investigate.

Did the staff actually knock on the door?

Wyllow3 Sat 20-Jun-26 15:18:12

NotSpaghetti

Is the answer to use more "upmarket" hotels?

I admit we always ask for a quiet room. There's always a few it seems yo me.

Well I stayed at a lovely quiet small guesthouse recently and it was lovely and friendly and very peaceful but not a place families would choose.

My fave hotel is more upmarket and old and thick walls and I save up to go one a year as its somewhere I can hang out all day when I want come and go and the bar for coffee and drinks open and friendly all day. Nice as I am on my own there.

I'd rather go there once save up than cheaper and more often and fret about noise etc. 6 days off season were about £1200 B,B, and dinner.

Wyllow3 Sat 20-Jun-26 15:18:54

Oh yes and choose my room as I know where they all are.

SynchroSwimmer Thu 25-Jun-26 21:38:26

Oh yes, an absolute bugbear of mine.
All of theses recently - a child encouraged to do a loud singing dance with clapping adults outside my door (their room was elsewhere), boys playing football in the corridor (I advised they were allowed to do it at their own room, but not allowed to disturb guests like this in other (my!) areas, loud family with 2 rooms opposite in Premier Inn who were using the corridor till midnight as party central (I had a 3 a.m. alarm for a flight). “Of course we are going to be making a noise” proffered the mother unhelpfully to me…

I have strategies…
Shoes outside the door, and the litter bin (subconscious signal that there are people about and that the room is occupied)

If it’s loud adults calling repeated “goodnight” down the corridor at 1 a.m. - I am up early having fake Kalimera/ buenas dias conversations with the non existent cleaners…and loudly expressing how we were woken by loud noisy people - .it always quietens off totally the next night.

There is never a hotel stay where I don’t have to go out in the corridor - deliberately undressed, naked, but the scantest of towel or sarong just covering the absolute bare essentials….and that alarms people. I do it on purpose - except I did recently get accidentally locked out of my room in that state - to an audience of 4 sniggering adults in the rooms opposite…

Only last week in a european resort with international well behaved respectful, quiet guests….4 Brits being unbearably shouty on the balcony such that the Croatians and other guests in the entire block were badly impacted. My companion asked me if I had access to The Archers theme tune on my ipad and could I play it….Surprised at his strange suggestion, I did. They heard, the sound entirely oit of normal context, became absolutely silent…everything just stopped.