Lonely

Patsyfagan, it is difficult for older women to find a decent man on a dating website. Not impossible but expensive if you persevere. Most men have something wrong with them so compromise needed.

You could join a special interest group on the internet that men like. They like pubs, football, cars, politics, old trains, old tractors, farming, power tools, DIY, ( men farmers need suitable wives and have little opportunity to meet them).