maddyfour
Please don’t leave, we need all views represented on here.
At times, to be honest, I’ve thought of leaving too, but like you, I enjoy the company of my online friends.
I wasn’t looking for requests to stay, but thank you anyway.
I am so fed up with the constant negativity on here though. This thread is a case in point - a cheap and modern solution to the problem of having people taking time off work and clogging up appointments is seen as costly and gimmicky when the moaners don’t even understand what the watches can do. It’s relentless, as is criticism of everything the new government suggests. Many people won’t even refer to them as ‘the government’ but insist on ‘Labour’ as though they are still an opposition party- it’s almost comical.
The libellous comment that Wes Streeting must have shares in smart watch companies passed almost without comment 🙄.
There are so many more edifying places to talk online that this one (fond as I am of many posters of all political persuasions) is losing attraction for me. Threads like WWM’s valiant attempts to remind people of the positives get hijacked by posters picking on one comment, such as mine about sahm’s expecting a pension for life just for cleaning their own houses when their children were at school. The whole thread was derailed by that, when we used to have reasonable discussions about it with varying opinions. That’s the sort of thing that puts people off making a comment on political threads.
PMs suggest that many others feel the same about the current inability to debate, suggesting that if everyone concerned moved on it would leave GN as a nest of vipers, moaning and sniping to one another instead of discussing and debating respectfully.
That would be a shame IMO, as older women have a lot in common, regardless of their political views, and it would be a shame to lose a forum where we can talk about our commonality because ’some people’ (deliberate choice there😂) snipe and pick at the posts of anyone who dares to disagree with any aspect of those people’s live choices.
I do recognise that many older women were taught not to speak up, so learnt to be passive aggressive and hint at things, dig and jibe etc. This resulted in the view that women make bad ‘bosses’ and round and round it goes. It is true that women who speak out get a hard time. But here we are (largely) amongst ourselves. There is no need for Mean Girls behaviour - spiteful ‘😂’ emojis to disrespect the views of others, playground ‘Gotchas’ and so on. Why can’t we just say what we mean and defend it against any criticism?