So what do you think should be done about it if we go back to women meaning AHF? Saying that you don't believe there is a need for change isn't an answer. If change has to happen, what form do you think it should take? The same question you asked me, really.
And I don't 'pretend' anything. Please stop it. You accuse me of making 'snide' comments which were absolutely upfront, yet passively call me anti-trans and accuse me of pretending and being discriminatory. I'm not. I just want women's spaces for women.
I don't think it is only men who are worried - I think that it is men who have imposed themselves into women's spaces, so it should be men who should come up with a way around it if this is stopped. Why is that so difficult?
Before you mention transmen - I will say again that they pose no threat to women, and very few will be a threat to men.
I have never seen a woman who is so 'different looking' that she has suffered from restrictions and limitations, so can't say much about that. I would imagine that people in that position must be very thin on the ground, though.
Also. It is the deliberate flaunters of maleness who insist on being in women's spaces who are the problem. As I said upthread, it's the Eddie Izzards, not the Hayley Croppers who have brought things to this pass. The men in the Women's Poetry awards, and the Vagina Museum. The boy trying on prom dresses on a busy Saturday afternoon in a communal changing room. The man in the parent and toddler swimming session's women's changing room where my friend took her child. And so on.