Thanks again for all this advice - a very good friend has now offered to come for me and take me home, then stay overnight if needs be. Hospital is over an hour away - that's if I get an appointment at the closest one, will know where and when sometime over the next 3 - 4 days apparently. All seems to be happening really fast and I haven't bought Christmas Presents yet, lol! Luckily I sent off cheques to nieces and nephews last Friday so only the brothers and sistes-in-laws and various friends to sort this week... thinking I may do something easy like gift tokens for them... usually make up little gift baskets, one year it was jams chutneys and homemade vodkas etc,then I did a food hamper with Italian type things from the deli, two years ago it was toiletries and last year it was car and keeping safe, but really disorganised this year! Eeek!