Unwanted gifts from neighbour

Maybe your GC could draw a picture for your neighbour, or even spend a little time with her using the art materials together?
We sometimes invite our neighbour to an ‘art’ session in our garden and it’s lovely to see them teaching the little ones art skills. Both sides benefit.

The neighbour really is not the person being rude here. The gifts are kindly meant and do not appear to be inappropriate.

Going against the tide here, but I really do think that if the woman’s been told more than once, thank you very much but the Gdd really does have plenty of such things now, she ought to stop.
Perhaps an occasional little present for the neighbour who takes her shopping would be nice.

There was a time when kind acts were the norm in most communities.

My Mum always knitted a little jacket or hat if she heard of anybody nearby having a new baby. She knitted beautiful socks for bereaved men and she made scones or sausage rolls for anyone she thought needed cheering up. Anybody in hospital got some magazines or some fruit. She didn’t have much herself but she was brought up to be neighbourly and kind. All her 7 siblings did the same.

You should thank your lucky stars you have a nice neighbour.

I don't think the lady is rude at all. She's insisting that she wants to buy something for the granddaughter as appreciation for the shopping help and won't take no for an answer. It makes her happy. What's wrong in that.
I can see that there's perhaps some concern that the lady is wasting her money.
Whatever grandaughter doesn't want give to a charity shop.
It wouldn't be a problem for me.

The lady giving the gifts is NOT being rude.

Regift appropriately.

She's probably been brought up with good manners and to feel she has to "pay her way". Some people have - and it's her way of saying "Thank you". Be a gracious recipient - whatever you do with the toys afterwards.