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nanna8 Tue 26-May-26 09:37:15

Whether they are banned or simply stop contributing it seems this happens reasonably often. It is a shame ,particularly when someone who has been a ‘regular’ is banned and most of us have no idea what caused it. A recent person to be banned never, as far as I am aware, transgressed . Sometimes I think someone with opposing views complains and causes a banning quite unnecessarily and we are the poorer for it. It would be very boring indeed if we all held the same views on everything.

Galaxy Thu 28-May-26 19:23:55

I wouldn't have thought so.

AGAA4 Thu 28-May-26 19:54:16

Oh no! I am in Switzerland this week and have just popped in. Sorry to hear about Allira. I hope she is alright.

Doodledog Fri 29-May-26 00:44:28

Primrose53

*Maybee70*. Because it is a topic that Allira often contributed to!

Doodledog I desperately want Allira back! Obviously ignore it if you choose to.

Ignore it?

I have posted on this thread several times, reported my own post and emailed Justine.

In what world is that ignoring it, please? I don’t expect you to reply, so this post is simply to show others how words can be twisted🙄

nanna8 Fri 29-May-26 03:20:38

Hate to say it but I don’t read many emails from gransnet. I get too many emails every day and just read the ones concerning the groups I am involved with in real life.If I get banned I probably won’t even know until I attempt to post. A few times I have decided this stuff is not for me and I don’t ‘fit in’ but then something good comes on , usually not political, and I come back. I really hope Allira comes back,even if she uses another name.

Aveline Fri 29-May-26 06:36:50

Maybe she is back under another name? I do hope so

Maremia Fri 29-May-26 06:45:54

Doodledog, yes, noticing that.

petra Fri 29-May-26 07:45:58

Aveline

Maybe she is back under another name? I do hope so

I’ve been in contact with her this morning. She certainly isn’t back 😥

GrannyGravy13 Fri 29-May-26 08:18:20

No reply yet from mumsnet (Justine) 🤷‍♀️

Aveline Fri 29-May-26 08:33:51

Petra please say hello to her from me.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 29-May-26 08:41:03

Aveline

Petra please say hello to her from me.

Allira can read GN threads, but cannot post

Doodledog Fri 29-May-26 08:59:55

Maremia

Doodledog, yes, noticing that.

Thanks.

I often wonder whether ‘some people’ think they slip under the radar when they make personal or otherwise unkind digs at others. That might work in their real lives, but it doesn’t when comments stay online for all to see.

petra, has there been any acknowledgment of this thread and the groundswell of support for Allira’s reinstatement?

Maremia Fri 29-May-26 09:20:21

Just to let you know that this Thread has slipped down from my daily Gransnet list.

Maremia Fri 29-May-26 09:21:30

And it's back up again!

ixion Fri 29-May-26 09:40:14

Not even a courtesy acknowledgment from Justine of my email here either.

BlueBelle Fri 29-May-26 09:47:11

Not even a generic thank you for your email, zilch
Are they fearful of the one who reported an innocent person !
We really do need some answers ! Why are they so afraid to talk to us, do they think if they keep quiet we ll trail off into the sunset, bored. the admin soon pop up at other times

Galaxy Fri 29-May-26 09:47:30

I just don't think Justine will be involved in the specifics of moderating decisions, sorry to be a wet blanket.

Wyllow3 Fri 29-May-26 09:59:30

Maremia

Doodledog, yes, noticing that.

All here have asked for Allira back and acted on it.

Hinting that it may be a consequence of a particular group because of their politics feels out of sync with the genuine warmth here.

It was really upsetting actually. Please no more.

Doodledog Fri 29-May-26 10:17:51

Doodledog

Oh dear.

What started as a thread about someone being banned for no obvious reason has become one about cliques and boats and factions/Mean Girls and so on.

FWIW, I understand all of that and why it's relevant, but if what we (as a collective force) want is to see Allira reinstated (as I do), then we have to ignore it and ask for a fair and objective system of moderation, so that everyone can understand what is acceptable on here and what isn't..

Maybe this post was unclear?

What I was saying is that there are those who are dragging in grievances and political comments to a thread which should have a single purpose.

If we want to make this protest work and get Allira back, what we need (IMO) to do is to ask for clear and fair rules, and more transparent moderation, rather than use the thread to make digs at one another.

Is that clearer?

Grannynannywanny Fri 29-May-26 10:18:34

Good grief ! I’ve just read through this thread which had previously escaped my notice while I was away from home. I’m appalled that this has happened to Allira and I hope this injustice will be put right by GNHQ .

Maremia Fri 29-May-26 10:24:14

Perhaps they are taking time to refine their answers as it is obvious that whatever is said will be shared here?

merlotgran Fri 29-May-26 10:28:39

The directive for mods is clearly to sit on their hands until we run out of steam.🤔

Cossy Fri 29-May-26 10:34:13

merlotgran

The directive for mods is clearly to sit on their hands until we run out of steam.🤔

Let’s not give them the satisfaction then!! X

Millie22 Fri 29-May-26 10:36:00

I tend to agree with Galaxy

Wyllow3 Fri 29-May-26 10:36:50

I don't share the mods hostility thing but this one has really puzzled me.

fancythat Fri 29-May-26 10:41:58

I have got to wondering if Allira said something in her inbox[or outbox or whatever it is called].

But I had a read through of the guidelines, and nothing was mentioned about inboxes that I could see.

And wouldnt she have been told about that, if that had been the case?

Surely she has been told the reason[s] for the ban?

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