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nanna8 Tue 26-May-26 09:37:15

Whether they are banned or simply stop contributing it seems this happens reasonably often. It is a shame ,particularly when someone who has been a ‘regular’ is banned and most of us have no idea what caused it. A recent person to be banned never, as far as I am aware, transgressed . Sometimes I think someone with opposing views complains and causes a banning quite unnecessarily and we are the poorer for it. It would be very boring indeed if we all held the same views on everything.

Bellanonna Thu 28-May-26 08:27:46

Someone yesterday suggested that Allira could be the reincarnation of a previously banned poster. That would make sense with her not being banned from one particular thread, but several. Someone else also mentioned “names” which I initially thought meant that A had used offensive terminology, although highly unlikely, and in fact names could just be referring to a change of name. But this is just conjecture based on a posters’ comments.
Whatever the reason I really hope GNHQ will come back with an explanation. This thread has reached 16 pages on my iPad, and G-netters’ collective f eelings have been made very strongly.

Oreo Thu 28-May-26 08:29:26

Allira hadn’t been banned before, that’s all just Chinese whispers.
If posters haven’t got any factual content then leave off the gossip.

SORES Thu 28-May-26 08:30:07

Usedtobeblonde

We all think that MissA but who are we?
Just the people without whom there wouldn’t be a GN.
We keep it going with our regular posts.
I am told there thousands of members ,most of whom never post.
Where would GN be without the loyal ones who start threads, post in others threads and keep it interesting and interact with others.

exactly! and would anyone notice if we regulars
overcame our addiction and didn’t post for a
couple of consecutive days-will we be valued then?

MissAdventure Thu 28-May-26 08:44:18

Some moved to another site at one point, but this one kept running, people kept posting, and the strikers came back, probably realising this ain't such a bad old site.
Which it isn't, if everyone plays nicely.
People can dislike, people can snipe deliberately or offend unwittingly.
I just feel bad for Allira to be caught up in something she has no idea of.
This goes beyond a little spat, or offence taken by a comment or two.

Wyllow3 Thu 28-May-26 08:45:26

Oreo

Allira hadn’t been banned before, that’s all just Chinese whispers.
If posters haven’t got any factual content then leave off the gossip.

Agreed, Oreo.

Kandinsky Thu 28-May-26 08:50:53

This is all very odd.
Why has a ( by all accounts ) pleasant, unassuming, popular poster been banned?
If she’s not a PBP, hasn’t been posting anything terrible to get yourself banned, then what’s happened?
HQ must have given her a reason?

petra Thu 28-May-26 08:52:23

I’d just like to say that unless Justine Roberts is made aware of this situation nothing will happen in Alliras case, and, the different attitude towards members Re Gransnet/ Mumsnet.
It won’t take more than 2 minutes to send that email.

pably15 Thu 28-May-26 08:53:21

petra

BlueBelle

We are adults, and for the most part we are aged adults, many have lived through hard times and good times but we are being treated as children who are not old enough to be told the truth of a situation, and I for one am upset by this. I find it demoralising to be treated as a child, I find it completely OTT for a regular pleasant contributor to be ostracised without explanation, it feels we’re not worthy to be treated as fully functioning adults and after all without us this platform would not exist
Would a mod please come on and talk to us on an adult level and explain what this is all about

How true.
Brilliantly put. 👏👏👏👏👏

Petra, very well said..

Spinnaker Thu 28-May-26 08:56:38

Just sent to Justine - here's hoping 🤞

petra Thu 28-May-26 08:58:16

Kandinsky

This is all very odd.
Why has a ( by all accounts ) pleasant, unassuming, popular poster been banned?
If she’s not a PBP, hasn’t been posting anything terrible to get yourself banned, then what’s happened?
HQ must have given her a reason?

You obviously havnt read the whole thread.
I’ve posted and posted that I have read the accusations. Sent to me by Allira.
It is all total bollocks

Rosie51 Thu 28-May-26 08:58:49

petra

I’d just like to say that unless Justine Roberts is made aware of this situation nothing will happen in Alliras case, and, the different attitude towards members Re Gransnet/ Mumsnet.
It won’t take more than 2 minutes to send that email.

Well mine took a little longer than 2 minutes but that's because I expressed my 'conspiracy theory' and I'm one who normally laughs them straight out of existence. I do hope our collective efforts will lead to a re-examination and the true motives behind multiple reportings exposed.
If that leads to me being banned, although I was scrupulously polite, then it's been nice knowing you.

petra Thu 28-May-26 08:59:09

Spinnaker

Just sent to Justine - here's hoping 🤞

Thank you
👏👏👏

petra Thu 28-May-26 08:59:51

Rosie51

petra

I’d just like to say that unless Justine Roberts is made aware of this situation nothing will happen in Alliras case, and, the different attitude towards members Re Gransnet/ Mumsnet.
It won’t take more than 2 minutes to send that email.

Well mine took a little longer than 2 minutes but that's because I expressed my 'conspiracy theory' and I'm one who normally laughs them straight out of existence. I do hope our collective efforts will lead to a re-examination and the true motives behind multiple reportings exposed.
If that leads to me being banned, although I was scrupulously polite, then it's been nice knowing you.

Thank you
👏👏👏

Wyllow3 Thu 28-May-26 09:00:12

I googled it Kandinsky and this was the answer,

"Gransnet does not usually give a reason publicly, and they often lock threads that ask about banned users. However, they may reach out and explain their moderation decisions directly to the affected poster behind the scenes

It also adds
"If you believe you were banned in error, you can contact Gransnet HQ directly at [email protected] to ask for a review of your account"

Kandinsky Thu 28-May-26 09:04:00

You obviously havnt read the whole thread
I’ve posted and posted that I have read the accusations. Sent to me by Allira
It is all total bollocks

Ok, no I haven’t read the whole thread.
Well if it’s all nonsense then hopefully it will get sorted and she’ll be back on GN by the weekend.

SORES Thu 28-May-26 09:04:32

petra

BlueBelle

Sent mine just now
If I m banned think of me, love you all ( well most of you)

I think I’ll be out the door before you. 😂 I’ve had my card marked a couple of times.

has Allira been posting on GN for a long time?
does longevity count for anything?!

years ago a real firebrand was suspended
for taking someone on, then returned subdued,
insightful and funny, while the adversary
went away never to be read again

petra Thu 28-May-26 09:08:56

Wyllow3

I googled it Kandinsky and this was the answer,

"Gransnet does not usually give a reason publicly, and they often lock threads that ask about banned users. However, they may reach out and explain their moderation decisions directly to the affected poster behind the scenes

It also adds
"If you believe you were banned in error, you can contact Gransnet HQ directly at [email protected] to ask for a review of your account"

So tell me why when Allira has reached out to the Mods several times over the past few days her emails have been ignored.
That was up until yesterday.
You have absolutely no idea how many members have been banned unjustly.
We have one of those banned unjustly on this very thread but she fought her corner long and hard and won her case.

petra Thu 28-May-26 09:11:03

SORES

petra

BlueBelle

Sent mine just now
If I m banned think of me, love you all ( well most of you)

I think I’ll be out the door before you. 😂 I’ve had my card marked a couple of times.

has Allira been posting on GN for a long time?
does longevity count for anything?!

years ago a real firebrand was suspended
for taking someone on, then returned subdued,
insightful and funny, while the adversary
went away never to be read again

It’s been so long, I can’t remember, I will ask her.

Smileless2012 Thu 28-May-26 09:11:10

I wonder if GNHQ have considered the possibility that these 'numerous reports' could have come from one or two posters, who set up several 'new' accounts just so they could use them to report.

This would look extremely suspicious if reports have come from posters who don't have a posting history.

What is in no doubt is that no one can understand what Allira could have done to justify a lifetime ban and this is very concerning and unsettling for the rest of us.

Retread Thu 28-May-26 09:14:17

Morning, I’ve just skimmed this thread, didn’t read it previously because I thought it was run-of-the-mill “what has happened to So-and-so?”

For the record, I never report anyone and I’m amazed that people do. I have occasionally reported spam threads. I’m sorry Allira has been banned, it”s ridiculous.

Finally, there was a comment somewhere along the line that those who remain silent on this thread might be guilty of being one of the reporters, this is too general. Some of us only use Gransnet as “light entertainment” - me included, given what’s currently going on in my life.

I hope you get reinstated, Allira,

JaneJudge Thu 28-May-26 09:18:41

I'm gutted Allira has been banned.

Rosie51 Thu 28-May-26 09:18:50

I'm going to be out and about for much of today, but will pop in as and when in the hope that sense and decency has prevailed and Allira is back where she belongs, and her posse of reporters have egg on their faces and their cards well and truly marked.

Tizliz Thu 28-May-26 09:19:22

I am not known for being controversial and many will not have even noticed me but this is spoiling my use of Gransnet so I have emailed asking for more communication to get problems sorted out. If I get banned then there is a conspiracy!

Magenta8 Thu 28-May-26 09:22:13

Rocketstop2

Magenta8

I teeter on the edge of dropping out of GN nearly every day.

Don't do that M, I'd miss you on the games thread !

Thank you Rocketstop2 I am seriously thinking of only posting on the games thread where I am virtually guaranteed a response to everything I post and nobody gets too cross if you post on the wrong thread or follow on from the wrong page.

There are some very amusing, clever people on there.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Thu 28-May-26 09:23:00

Another here who has just emailed Justine. 🤞

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