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petunia Sat 22-Jun-19 09:11:32

So we are deep into the “prom” season. Across the land, children have been planning their school prom with military precision. Hundreds of pounds are spent on prom outfits, hair extensions, make-up, tanning sessions, nail decorations, shoes, bags, limousines, after prom parties (???) etc, etc, etc.
And across the land, hundreds of children are being excluded from proms for misdemeanour's and misinterpretation of uniform rules uniform.

Local news papers are full of parents bemoaning the cash spent on the prom that has been wasted as their child has been excluded.

A friend of mine has a granddaughter whose parents spent many hundreds on two, yes two prom dresses as the first fell out of favour.

Somewhere along the line, I must have missed the memo. When did we sign up to this extravaganza. When did the end of term school disco become such a huge, costly deal? Or am I being a miserable old git?

Grandmama Sun 23-Jun-19 21:04:15

Haven't read all the posts but one head said that some girls were on strict diets while doing their GCSEs, ready for the Prom.

sandelf Sun 23-Jun-19 21:15:05

In a country where there is real poverty these excesses are horrible.

Milo27 Sun 23-Jun-19 21:48:23

My four Sons went to a boys school so it didn't arise ( thank goodness! )

M0nica Sun 23-Jun-19 22:07:29

DS's school had dinner and dance for leavers and their parents. This was in 1989.

It was very enjoyable. After the dinner the leavers and their partners dominated the dance floor, but it was a private school and they had very pleasant grounds and sitting areas, it was a very hot night. We met up with the parents of DS's best friend. Both our respective DH's had returned from (separate) trips abroad that day and were exhausted. We sat on a bench in the cool under a tree with the men each end and the wives in the middle. The men were soon asleep and the other wife and I talked to each other for several hours. By the end of the eveningwe were firm friends and remained so until her untimely death.

Missiseff Sun 23-Jun-19 22:37:33

No you're not a miserable old git. It's an appalling waste of money. I pity the single parents & the ones on low incomes

Daisymae Mon 24-Jun-19 08:53:30

Different times, I guess that we would be up to our eyes if prom glitter if we were sweet 16!

Sara65 Mon 24-Jun-19 09:14:19

I can’t imagine the agony of hoping someone would invite me!

Nanny41 Mon 24-Jun-19 14:45:18

My eldest Granddaughter had her prom a few weeks ago (we dont live in the UK) such a ridiculous amount of money was spent on two dreses, one for the ball and one on her Graduation day, then a huge open air Party for sixty of us in their garden, this of course meant her opening sixty present! I find this all OTT and feel so sorry for the children who,s parents cant afford these things how do those children feel, its an extravaganza from the US,and as usual we have to follow whatever the US does!

JacquiG Tue 25-Jun-19 12:26:02

Marketing. Of the children, especially the girls.

moggie57 Tue 25-Jun-19 12:36:51

i would offer to organise a pizza night or a picnicor bbq for your d or s prom night.tell your children you cant afford it .if they want to spend out .let them use their savings. or you could get a 2nd hand dresss from a charity shop. would cost less than the real deal. me. glad my child never had this. waste of money just to show off.