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Has Brexit ruined Gransnet?

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Teetime Thu 04-Apr-19 09:42:44

Just asking.

crystaltipps Thu 04-Apr-19 09:52:12

Brexit has ruined lots of things.

Apricity Thu 04-Apr-19 10:02:32

That is the big question of the 21st century for the UK - and not just Gransnet. I'm of British descent on all sides, have loved and travelled to and around the UK many times from the Isles of Scilly to Skara Brae in the Orkneys and quite honestly I just weep for the disaster of Brexit.

I see the monumental divisions of Brexit writ loud and clear on GN and I feel so incredibly sad to see a once proud country and my own cultural heritage just trashing itself. And for what? I really don't know. Does anyone? As so many anthropological and ethnological studies have shown, the groups of people who survive are those who know how to cooperate with their neighbours. The isolationists don't survive.

maryeliza54 Thu 04-Apr-19 10:17:51

GN reflects a ‘ruined’ country

Gonegirl Thu 04-Apr-19 10:21:59

No!!! grin grin grin

henetha Thu 04-Apr-19 10:24:46

No!. GN can cope with this Brexit madness and survive beyond it. Just a bit of tolerance is all it takes.

maryeliza54 Thu 04-Apr-19 10:25:38

Tolerance?

eazybee Thu 04-Apr-19 10:42:43

Brexit hasn't ruined anything because it hasn't happened yet. What has happened is the overturning of democracy as understood and cherished in this country.

Urmstongran Thu 04-Apr-19 10:52:12

I only joined GN after the referendum so I don’t have a comparison. Those who don’t like debate can always swerve the political threads I suppose.

maryeliza54 Thu 04-Apr-19 10:53:09

Haha - like objecting to MPs voting who are legally entitled to vote eazy ( I know I know TAAT but couldn’t resist). The foundations of democracy are the rule of law and due process. If you only apply those to people you approve of then you might as well take democracy and stuff it quite frankly.

maryeliza54 Thu 04-Apr-19 10:55:38

Urm exactly. As to the OP - no it hasn’t ruined GN - the passion and debate re Brexit is reflected on GN and it would be very odd if it were not.

Urmstongran Thu 04-Apr-19 11:02:32

Hey maryeliza we agree on something!
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GrannyGravy13 Thu 04-Apr-19 11:09:51

Debate is always a good thing, only when it gets into personal derogatory insults is it wrong, but that goes for any subject.

antimony51 Thu 04-Apr-19 11:18:56

Hello all, this is my first post on this topic on GN although been reading it for a 2 or 3 years now. Just worked out how to make post after password reset.

I find the range of views on Brexit and other stuff does reflect diverse views of nation and is much better tempered than post on newspaper and media sites. I enjoy reading it. But I was thinking this morning that Mrs May must have been mad to call election in 2017 reducing working majority to the sorry state of today. It is a real mess.

Ginny42 Thu 04-Apr-19 11:41:54

Gransnet is whatever you want it to be. Some members never read the politics threads. I am very political, so I come on mostly to read the News and Politics threads. Brexit hasn't happened yet, but only because the entire nation is split and MPs who are in the thick of it are trying desperately to apply the rules of democracy in spite of the steamroller job the Tories have attempted.

Undoubtedly what we have on GN is in microcosm what is happening out there and yes, the nation is divided. It is regrettable that some factions have made very angry scenes, attacking the press and behaving like louts. Would I want to know them on a personal level - no. Do I think all Brexit supporters are like them - no. That's nonsense to think everyone who thought it best to leave the EU is like them.

So on GN we have a spat with words. Yes, people are naturally very wound up by events and we're not robots, we have fears and beliefs which have been deeply challenged in this whole process.

I will forever think it's madness to leave the EU, you may think differently but you're entitled to your views. From what some posters have written on GN, we would not be friends in RL but that's life anyway isn't it? We don't get on with everyone we meet in life.

lemongrove Thu 04-Apr-19 11:55:08

No, it hasn’t ruined GN, in fact a few years ago the politics pages were much much worse.
After we leave the EU things will simmer down, and it will be back to politics as usual.
I cannot understand why some people have allowed rifts to happen between themselves and family and friends over this matter.....sheer madness.

jura2 Thu 04-Apr-19 12:06:20

GB is the least of our worries. Anyone who does not want to take part in political discussion, can just avoid it altogether- simples.

Unfortunately, the effect of Brexit has done much more damage in real life. Split communities, families, friends, neighbours, work colleagues - I know many younger people on remain sites who no longer talk to or visit, parents or sibblings- no because they voted 'leave' per se- but because of the reasons stated. Now that is truly sad and even tragic- GN is of no importance whatsoever in this context.

jura2 Thu 04-Apr-19 12:06:47

GN not GB oh for an edit button here!

MaizieD Thu 04-Apr-19 12:09:02

What has happened is the overturning of democracy as understood and cherished in this country.

Indeed it has, eazybee. Democracy as we understand it is about free and fair elections (or, in this rare case, referendums). Note that very important word fair. This means abiding by the rules.

We know that Vote Leave seriously broke electoral law (and there have been referrals to the police) and we know that they cheated. We'll set aside the secretive 'dark ads', targeted only at people likely to be receptive to them and not open to all the campaigns to see and be able to answer to, though secret advertising doesn't come within my definition of fair.

This is not democracy, this is 'win at all costs' practice we would be first to condemn in another country. It sickens me that people, particularly our leaders, are willing to turn a blind eye to it. So much for the British belief in 'fair play' that we've always been so proud of.

A leader with any moral compass would have voided the result, strengthened the rules and had a rerun.

mumofmadboys Thu 04-Apr-19 12:20:28

Democracy is an organic , dynamic process. We are all better informed now. A second referendum would be a fairer process.

Alima Thu 04-Apr-19 12:21:08

I don’t think Brexit has ruined Gransnet. Ask me if some of the posters on Gransnet have tried to ruin Gransnet and the answer will be different.

Jane10 Thu 04-Apr-19 12:33:12

I don't think brexit has ruined GN. I don't think it's ruined GB either. We've weathered worse over the years. This could be the start of a necessary change in politics. Painful but probably necessary.
Brexit? Not ideal but not the end of the world either.

GillT57 Thu 04-Apr-19 13:16:38

Brexit has not changed GN, but it is in the process of changing GB, and not for the better in my mind.

jura2 Thu 04-Apr-19 13:17:15

It will affect some people a lot harder than others - for sure. The poorest, the most vulnerable - and will probably lead to unrest. Not ideal for me, perhaps not for you - we can weather it- many won't be able to. And it will be a disaster for the NHS (ok for those who go private), education (ok for those who go private)- and social services (ok for you or I who have (probably) never had to rely on the net. Other issues like crime, terrorism (without cooperation with the EU)- etc, will create a society where all will be affected by fear and distrust. Most would not enjoy living behind electric fences and be driven everywhere with doors and windows locked.

Anja Thu 04-Apr-19 13:25:48

Nobody has to log on to GN if they don’t want to.

You have to become forum savvy...ie remember you can put your tablet/phone/whatever away and go back later/next day/not at all,

You don’t have to engage with the obsessed/rude/resentful/ignorant/disillusioned/etc unless you like fighting crusades or lost causes.

And there is always the thread about cauliflower cheese if you feel you’d prefer a quiet space or the Argy Bargy if you want to let it all hang out!