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lemongrove Thu 27-Dec-18 10:47:53

We used to enjoy NYE with friends, dinner at each others houses, plenty of drinks and the fireworks at midnight.
Sometime in the last three years it has become more an ordeal, so last week we all talked about it, and the others admitted it had become more and more difficult to stay up celebrating, when they really longed for ‘cocoa and slippers’
We all laughed and then decided to see everyone for a nice long lunch on New Year’s Day instead, which we will all enjoy.
So glad we talked about it when we did! Anyone feel the same or are you still a party animal?

Chewbacca Thu 27-Dec-18 10:53:21

Not been a party animal, on any night of the year, for decades Lemon! The only New Year's Eve I've stayed up for in recent years was last year when a friend hosted a board games night and I had trouble staying alert to do that! I'm looking forward to going to bed and reading one of my stash of books this year and hope to be asleep before the fireworks start.

Oldwoman70 Thu 27-Dec-18 10:54:58

Like most I have partied and enjoyed NYE but now I usually just watch a DVD and have a couple of drinks. I will try to stay up to see in the new year but if last year is anything to go by I will be in bed by 11.00! I think the New Year's Day lunch is a great idea

GrannyGravy13 Thu 27-Dec-18 10:55:07

We have offered to babysit GC, should have a lovely quiet evening ??

EllanVannin Thu 27-Dec-18 10:55:15

It can come and go as far as I'm concerned.

yggdrasil Thu 27-Dec-18 11:47:05

I used to enjoy NYE with friends. Then my son was born on that day, 3 weeks early. So for the next nnn years I had to do parties for kids, or outings for him and a couple of friends.
I quite got out of the habit.
This year as usual my partner has to work on the 31st, so by the time the day is over all he will want to do is have an early night

NannyJan53 Thu 27-Dec-18 12:38:21

We are going to Lincolnshire on Sunday, and will be spending NYE with a friend who moved there last year. It is nibbles and drinks at her house NYE with her new neighbours. Then New Years day, a walk and meet up with some of her family and friends (she is originally from that area) and about 30 of us will take over a Curry House for lunch!

EllanVannin Thu 27-Dec-18 12:44:41

NYE to me now is a far cry from being at Sydney Harbour Bridge years ago. What a show they put on even then though I can see the difference now when the news is on.

ninathenana Thu 27-Dec-18 14:06:54

We used to take it in turns with friends to host NYE with the children all camping in one bedroom at the hosts house.
We haven't celebrated NY really for years. We have drinks and nibbles at home and watch Jules Holland and the fireworks on TV then we are in bed by 12.30am.
I have always cooked roast lamb for lunch NYD. This year DD, DGC and their dad will be here.

H1954 Thu 27-Dec-18 15:30:49

Years ago we used to go out, felt like it was expected of me but to be perfectly honest I would have much sooner stayed home in the company of family and maybe close friends but a the OH like to be seen at certain places; I now know he was afraid of missing something!!!! Consequently, NYE always get very leary due to far too much alcohol etc. Some years on and circumstances are different, a change of employment meant I was sometimes working night shift but now new OH and I are retired and both much prefer nice meal at home, a few drinks, good film and if we want.....an early night........no compulsion to stay up until the early hours. We still wish family and friends HNY and get together on NYD but it's so much more pleasure with a clearer head after a good nights sleep!

Teetime Thu 27-Dec-18 15:50:34

We celebrate New Years Day as a new beginning. We take down all the decorations, clean the house and make plans for the coming year- travelling hopefully 2019 was not good for us or our family.

Teetime Thu 27-Dec-18 15:50:57

Sorry meant 2018 - hopefully 2019 will be better.

labazs1964 Thu 27-Dec-18 18:01:27

no dont drink dont party so i am just as happy to go to bed and sleep through new year but depends on partner sometimes he stays up so i join him but just a quiet happy new year

phoenix Thu 27-Dec-18 18:07:10

Not a fan of New Year's Eve, we stay at home and struggle to stay awake!

Have invited some friends whose circumstances have changed, although we would be happy to have thrm, we are both hoping that they decline the invitation!

nannyof4 Thu 27-Dec-18 18:13:49

We stay at home and watch it come in on the tv and have a couple of drinks and something nice to eat.

etheltbags1 Thu 27-Dec-18 18:48:06

Nah i hate new years eve. Not been out since i was widowed. 25 years ago. I cant stand the crowds in pubs taking ages to get served. I hate the slobbery men kissing everyone . Plus its always cold so im cocoa and slippers person

Dontaskme Thu 27-Dec-18 18:56:29

Used to love it, now get annoyed at being woken by fireworks at midnight!
New year, same old shite. To those that think otherwise - Happy New Year to you all smile.

Lynne59 Thu 27-Dec-18 20:16:30

New Year's Eve... pre-purchased tickets to get into pubs (even our "local" down the road), queues at the bar, nowhere to sit, everyone getting drunk, everywhere too loud to have a conversation, drinks being knocked over, people getting drunk and argumentative/loud/stupid, over-priced taxis home...... oh yes, what a great night out (NO, not really). I like to stay in, have a few friends and/or family round, have drinks and food here, and I (not drinking) drive people home.

lemongrove Thu 27-Dec-18 20:26:44

Seems that we and our friends are not alone in really having had enough of NYE ( but nobody wants to be the first to say it.) Things change, we become older and don’t always want to drink much and stay up late.grin
Am looking forward to a celebration lunch on NYDay much more.

crazyH Thu 27-Dec-18 21:20:03

A group of us women (all either divorced or widowed)used to go out every NYE for dinner, nothing fancy, just the Harvester or something similar, then come back to my house, because I did like to bring in the New Year with a couple of glasses of Prosecco....the others would have one small glass, we'd have some nibbles, watch the fireworks, chat away till about 2a,m. The inebriated would stay over, the others would drive back home.
Alas, one or two have gone to the land beyond, the others have health issues and so it will be just me and my Prosecco ?

crystaltipps Thu 27-Dec-18 22:09:57

Well it’s only one night of the year and you can have your cocoa every night if you want. We have a few neighbours of a similar vintage and all enjoy getting together- all contribute a buffet dish and a bottle, not a wild party but good fun. Only a minute to walk home when we’ve had enough. Wouldn’t bother with a crowded pub or big fireworks do though. We didn’t do nye when the kids were younger so we’re making up for it now.

Lyndiloo Fri 28-Dec-18 02:51:59

I love New Year's Eve! The family always get together, and we have food, booze and fireworks. Always a bit bitter-sweet for me, though, as I can't help but remember all those people that I've loved who are no longer here. So a few tears for me too.

mumofmadboys Fri 28-Dec-18 09:33:31

We are having close friends to stay. Have booked a meal out for early in the evening. Hoping to walk up a local mountain with head torches in time for midnight.

sodapop Fri 28-Dec-18 12:10:11

That sounds like an interesting New Year's Eve momb, hope the weather holds for you..
We decided to do New Years Day lunch as well, a good time for friends to get together.

jeanie99 Sat 29-Dec-18 23:34:27

When the children were small we used to take it in turns with friends having a party. The children would be put to bed dependant of ages and we stayed up, generally had a house full. This went on until the children were older and then we all met up and went to the pub or had a meal and back to some ones house.
We still tend to do something but not partying like we did.