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What irritates you about other Gransnetters?

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Nonnie Tue 03-Apr-18 13:15:17

Perhaps I should duck before I even start!

I think there are two things which make me wish people didn't do them.

1 When someone asks for really simple advice and people don't read what others have said before saying exactly the same. Yes, I understand on long threads that one cannot read it all and there are posters who say they haven't read it all and hope they are not repeating, they are not irritating.
2 People who post to say they don't know anything about the subject, why post at all then? No, I don't mean those who just want to show sympathy or that they care, of course that is appreciated. It feels like they just have to comment for the sake of commenting.

Perhaps I'm not in a very tolerant mood today. I admit I'm feeling emotional so maybe that is why. Or maybe I'm just plain grumpy!

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 16:15:13

Baggs!!
Now I have 'Sultans of Swing' as an ear-worm

soop Thu 05-Apr-18 16:16:47

Baggs from one ordinary mortal to another - well said!

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 16:18:50

sorry, I will read it and digest properly without being distracted by Dire Straits.

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 16:25:41

Print is crap sometimes.
Very true.

The other thing about GN is that we could read an OP which is asking for solutions to a seemingly insoluble problem and our instinct is to offer help.

In a RL situation we could in fact sit and listen and let the person talk through the problem and, with some prompting, they could even come to a solution themselves which suits them and their situation. We can't just listen on GN because it would just be ignoring posts.

We can only do our best to help, to suggest, perhaps with experience gained from our own problems and good (or otherwise) solutions.

Baggs Thu 05-Apr-18 16:29:27

jalima, great guitar playing in that song ? ?

Atqui Thu 05-Apr-18 16:47:11

In the Men are from Mars etc book , I seem to recall the author saying that women just want to pour out their problems to a sympathetic ear with just the odd "poor you" or "No really" response, and men always want to solve the problem. As you say Baggs that would be a bit tricky on GN

Atqui Thu 05-Apr-18 16:47:56

Sorry did I mean Jalima

FarNorth Thu 05-Apr-18 16:55:31

On Mumsnet, people can get quite annoyed if an OP seems to be "drip-feeding". i.e. people try to be helpful then the OP provides more info showing why that wouldn't/didn't help.

Granny23 Thu 05-Apr-18 16:56:50

Sultans of Swing is one of my favourities. Now also running on a loop in my head, which is a Good Thing. smile

kittylester Thu 05-Apr-18 17:27:46

Nooooo! Not Sultans of Swing - please. That can hang around for days!!

lemongrove Thu 05-Apr-18 17:28:41

Dire Straits are fab, but Money For Nothing is better than Sultans.Just saying.grin

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 17:29:15

It's that riff, it does persist in hanging around!

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 17:33:41

Yes, I agree Lemongrove, but that's the one that popped into my head first of all
OK then:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoaBjHYsDAg
Brilliant drumming too

MissAdventure Thu 05-Apr-18 17:36:03

Real 'feel good' tune, that. smile
A chance to tune up the old air guitar!

Jalima1108 Thu 05-Apr-18 17:37:18

DH is saying 'I'm trying to THINK here!'

MissAdventure Thu 05-Apr-18 17:38:26

grin

Madgran77 Thu 05-Apr-18 18:33:25

"A poster states their problem situation and asks for advice. They may get some advice but they may also get a number of posts from (annoying) Gransnetters who just ramble on about their own lives in a completely unhelpful way." - Far North

I agree Far North...like when an OP asks for help/advice about a big problem in a relationship (eg with a daughter)
and are treated to detailed eulogies about other Gransnetters wonderful happy relationships with their daughters!! So helpful ...NOT!!