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What irritates you about other Gransnetters?

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Nonnie Tue 03-Apr-18 13:15:17

Perhaps I should duck before I even start!

I think there are two things which make me wish people didn't do them.

1 When someone asks for really simple advice and people don't read what others have said before saying exactly the same. Yes, I understand on long threads that one cannot read it all and there are posters who say they haven't read it all and hope they are not repeating, they are not irritating.
2 People who post to say they don't know anything about the subject, why post at all then? No, I don't mean those who just want to show sympathy or that they care, of course that is appreciated. It feels like they just have to comment for the sake of commenting.

Perhaps I'm not in a very tolerant mood today. I admit I'm feeling emotional so maybe that is why. Or maybe I'm just plain grumpy!

Elrel Tue 03-Apr-18 17:41:55

I'm not feeling irritated at all today! Some days I could pick an online fight with loads of people but maybe not on Gransnet!

GillT57 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:43:12

I get irritated too by lengthy posts without the use of paragraphs. Don't wish to be a grammar nazi, but sometimes poor punctuation and ambiguous meanings get me exhausted trying to work out what the OP is saying, I also loathe the word 'hubby' and I am afraid that I generally ignore the post if that word is used. shock. Generally feel a bit saddened by the number of women on GN who live their lives for/through/only for their grandchildren. Apologies if I offend anyone, that is not my intent, just an observation.

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:44:51

anno please could you pop round and set my scanner up please? It's been set up by a friend who is 'an expert', went again, then I did it and it was fine, now the printer is working but the scanner isn't!! DH doesn't have a clue what's wrong. I am ready to throw it through the window.

Thanks smile

MawBroon grin

I agree about the lack of paragraphs - sometimes a new poster writes an extremely long OP and I lose the will to read it part way through.

Oh - and posters who post one after another. Like me

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:47:37

Oh - and posters who post one after another. Like me

I mean one post after another

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:47:43

Like that

Luckygirl Tue 03-Apr-18 17:50:37

grin

I don't mind poor grammar or mis-spellings. Some folk have not had the benefit of a good education and that is not their fault - as long as I can understand it then that is fine by me.

MawBroon Tue 03-Apr-18 17:52:02

Elrel some days I could pick a fight in an empty room, so you are entirely excused!

Jane10 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:53:21

I'm cross just reading this thread!! From a couple of responses I find that apparently I'm stuck in a victorian time warp and rely on men. That's absolute b******s! I'm fed up with GNers who don't think how their posts make others feel. angry

SpanielNanny Tue 03-Apr-18 17:54:55

It really does depend on my mood, some days my tolerance levels are lower than others. I must admit to getting slightly frustrated when posters say they can’t comment ‘without knowing both sides’. The very nature of the forum means that we will only ever hear the OP’s point of view. I can understand urging the OP to consider the other side, but declining to offer advice for that reason seems such a pointless comment.

kittylester Tue 03-Apr-18 18:17:09

I agree with Jane10. Some people have no flipping awareness at all.

Madgran77 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:19:35

Rudeness/aggressiveness/ belittling posts that are claimed to be "straight talking; the truth" etc etc!!! One can be straight talking and five honest opinions that might be hard for the OP, without any of the above! Apart from anything else, now of the above help to get a point over!!

Madgran77 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:20:09

Sorry ..."give honest opinions" ...

PamelaJ1 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:29:18

GillT- I blame all my grammar and punctuation inaccuracies on predictive text. I couldn’t even spell Nina correctly earlier!

annodomini Tue 03-Apr-18 18:39:23

jalima, it sounds as if through the window would be the best solution to your scanner problem!

mollie Tue 03-Apr-18 19:06:26

I like paragraphs too. And spellings, but I’m just as guilty now and then. I’ve stopped feeling ignored when someone repeats my comments and gets mentioned for the point. But I hate it when I start a thread and someone comes along and drags my thread into another direction. It happens occasionally and I’ve usually failed to get it back on track. So annoying!

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:35:35

Thanks anno, I was relying on you to have the answer to my problems!
Window it is then, although it could just be still under guarantee!

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:37:40

Jane10 throw your corsets through the window along with my printer-scanner - liberation!!

Liberation from technology and liberation from Victorian corsets. grin

No-one on GN has sounded remotely Victorian to me!

Maggiemaybe Tue 03-Apr-18 19:42:03

I'm cross just reading this thread!! From a couple of responses I find that apparently I'm stuck in a victorian time warp and rely on men. That's absolute b******s! I'm fed up with GNers who don't think how their posts make others feel. angry angry

Hear, hear Jane10! I'm gobsmacked at being described as a helpless woman dependent on a man when I thought I was just contributing to a light-hearted thread. angry

Maggiemaybe Tue 03-Apr-18 19:43:53

And I was in a good mood till I read those comments! grin

Maggiemaybe Tue 03-Apr-18 19:45:45

Jalima, I guess you've tried switching it off and back on again?

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:47:14

I've tried everything Maggiemaybe, deleting it and reinstalling - the printer works perfectly (fingers crossed) but the scanner has decided it doesn't recognise my pc.

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:50:07

Nothing irritates me, really, just some of the posts!! None of it really matters in RL, does it?

But, if some who seemed to be nice posts something that shocks me then that makes me do a double-take.

Marydoll Tue 03-Apr-18 19:51:31

We had the same with an HP printer, tried everything, updating drivers, uninstalling, re-installing and taking it off the network. Ditched it in the end, as it would only print.

Marydoll Tue 03-Apr-18 19:54:31

OOPs! Wrong thread ignore, please.
Perhaps some grans find idiots like me, who post on the wrong thread, annoying.grin However, I have tried to use correct punctuation.
I should have read the OP, sorry.

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 20:01:22

That's OK, Marydoll it was me who sidetracked - and yes, it is a flippin' HP. printer.