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Grandson wants to go on holiday with his boyfriend

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Nannyoffour Thu 15-Feb-18 19:00:45

Hi my grandson who is 14 and openly gay asked me if he could go on holiday with his boyfriend who is 16. My grandsons boyfriends parents will also be going on holiday with them.
Should I let him or not ??? I don't know weather to say yes or no

Jalima1108 Sat 17-Feb-18 14:14:07

phoenix shock
I thought that Elvis was working in the local fish and chip shop!

Jalima1108 Sat 17-Feb-18 14:16:28

Lemongrove - totally inappropriate comment.
Tut tut lemongrove!

Was that the remark about onesies? I've always wondered what happens if you want the loo in the middle of a cold night, you would have to strip right off if you're wearing a onesie (well nearly).

Jalima1108 Sat 17-Feb-18 14:17:02

Well, a boy might not have to, I suppose
hmm

judypark Sat 17-Feb-18 15:47:10

No disrespect to Mumsnet posters but GNs are a bit older and sometimes longer and wiser in the tooth.
The OP has posted beforehand, at the beginning of Jan this year,
The post was regarding taking her 12 year old GS and his 18 year old sister to a restaurant, the DGS was wearing a pair of Ugg boots which the OP had bought him for a fiver.
According to the sister the DGS had been stared at because of his Ugg boots?
The crux of the OPs question seemed to be Does wearing Cheap Uggs mark you out as being "Openly gay" at 12 years old?
Interestingly the OPs posts have both appeared during school holidays. This original post was eventually deleted by GN. Make of that what you will.

BlueBelle Sat 17-Feb-18 16:18:32

Poor boy has just aged two years in two months I know kids grow fast these days but at that rate he ll be 26 by year end and he seems to live with a mum and a Nan at the same time good job there’s not an Auntiesnet

Milly Sat 17-Feb-18 16:26:25

I agree with Mapleleaf - whether the weather is dry or whether the weather is wet - spelling doesn't matter it is a much more serious issue here, - underage gay sex?

MissAdventure Sat 17-Feb-18 16:46:14

There isn't any suggestion that underage sex will be taking place, and the boys mum, who posted word for word the same thread on mumsnet, without knowing her mum had posted here has said she will be letting him go on the holiday.

BlueBelle Sat 17-Feb-18 16:53:41

Apart from the fact The Mum and The Nan are probably both the boy ???

judypark Sat 17-Feb-18 17:12:28

Good maths BlueBelle, someone is having a "larf"

Jalima1108 Sat 17-Feb-18 18:18:13

I just want to know if he had two birthday cakes at the restaurant, one with 13 candles and one with 14 candles.
You know, that restaurant where he wore his Ugg boots and everyone stared at him.

(that doesn't make him 27 does it?)

trisher Sun 18-Feb-18 10:55:40

Thinking about it maybe he should go on holiday with someone. He's had a busy time, he deserves a break! I hope someone's made sure his passport is up to date

Jalima1108 Sun 18-Feb-18 11:14:48

Too late for this half-term now

Fennel Sun 18-Feb-18 13:16:54

Ugg boots - I've just come off a flight from Toulouse and at least half of the younger passengers were wearing Ugg boots.
Seems there's an epidemic of gayness.

Jalima1108 Sun 18-Feb-18 15:29:38

Do you think they went on the holiday after all *Fennel
That was a short trip if so.* shock

lemongrove Sun 18-Feb-18 15:35:17

Perhaps we will hear all about it in the Easter hols!

nanna123 Sun 18-Feb-18 16:19:11

What a sad state of affairs to be even discussing this when the CHILD is only 14 - !

Oopsadaisy12 Sun 18-Feb-18 16:34:58

Maybe the lad is posting because he wants to know whether he should ask his Grandmotherfor permission to go away? Perhaps he will repost as himself and maybe we could give him some guidance? Instead of poking fun?
Just a thought...

NotAGran55 Sun 18-Feb-18 16:37:00

GNHQ - Why aren't the troll hunters posts being deleted from this thread ?