Its weird to me that his sexual orientation seems to be the thing that is making you concerned about whether he should go on holiday or not, Nannyoffour. What difference does it make if he's gay or not? If this was a 14 year old girl going on holiday with her 16 year old bf and his family what would you say? I'd be having a chat with the other boys parents about how they will be keeping your GS safe in ALL ways, especially if they plan to travel overseas. Lemongrove - totally inappropriate comment.
Some posters seem to think that he's too young to know that he's gay - I certainly knew my sexual orientation! Yes, some people change but going on holiday with a bf when you're 14 whether you are a boy or a girl doesn't mean that's it, done, no going back!
Its a holiday with the parents of the other boy and an adult sister not a group of n'er do wells (is that how its written?!). I know what I would do 