Dispairing now

Thank heaven's for pet insurance annsixty! It will be difficult for him, and the rest of the family, whilst his pelvis heals but it's amazing how quickly they do and how quickly they adapt afterwards. My cat was also incontinent whilst he was in his cage, but we put the cage on a large sheet of heavy duty plastic so that the "seepage" didn't go into our carpets etc. But once he's healed, you'll be amazed at how quickly they learn to jump up on fences etc. It took my cat about 6 months to be fully back to his usual self. Good luck with it all annsixty and let us know how he gets on.

Annie so sorry. Have just read this. We too lost a dog in similar circumstances and also had one left behind. I couldn't decide if I was more sorry for myself or remaining dog who was lost without her pal. We both got through it. Remaining dog got more cuddles and gradually got over loss. I hope you feel better soon. It is such a shock.

I cant believe you have been carrying the guilt around with you for forty one years. What a thing for your daughter to text you about. Whatever the reason, we all make mistakes and have done things we regret. That is life and all we can do is pray for forgiveness. Be kind to yourself . Sleep well (hugs)

How awful. Could you limit time with your daughter? Your dog knew of your love and died peacefully please take comfort in that. There's plenty on here to chat to.

Annie
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My little Lottie will not eat, just wants to sleep, but at the same time gets restless , moves from sofa to sofa to floor, to my tummy, admit I am a little fearful she is ill but am sure she is bereft

So sorry to read that you are having such a terrible time.

Just wanted to say that my little dog is called Lottie too and I hope that you and your Lottie are feeling better soon x

Aw Dannie, my Lottie is very distressed, hasn't eaten since her dinner Thursday , will not go in the garden, just lies looking at the hall door. Found her mid morning biscuits hidden under a throw this morning.

Bella, it's hard for Lottie, she joined us when she was eight weeks, us being two west Highlands and me, she was mothered by the older one , she died two years ago and .Honey took over the mothering/pack leader, Lottie went into the garden if Honey did, came in when Honey did , a little shadow. She now has to think for herself bless her and is lost.

That’s so sad to read, Annie, especially the biscuits under the throw. It must be so hard for Lottie as she can’t understand why Honey has left her. Awful shock for you to wake up to, too, though for Honey it was a peaceful end. Lots and lots of cuddles for Lottie and love from me to you both.

Bella, it was an awful shock , but you are so right, it was peaceful for Honey. Lottie and I must allow time to pass .

Thank you x