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I don't want to just 'fill my time' when I retire!

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Clickgran Wed 19-Jul-17 23:07:22

When I tell people that may retire soon, they say "Oh well you will need something to fill your time" I want to say "fill my time until what?" It reminds me of the sit com with Stephanie Cole called Waiting for God. I have a hobby, but I don't want to do that 24/7. Maybe it's entering into the unknown, I don't know. Any advise please, that isn't hobby or grandchildren related.

Liz46 Fri 21-Jul-17 12:33:19

Thanks for the useful information mancgirl.

Rosiebee Fri 21-Jul-17 18:14:46

We both retired together 7 years ago and a month later DH was diagnosed with cancer - all OK now- but after a fairly grim year we made a conscious effort to enjoy our retirement. We do what we want when we want, inc voluntary work, hobbies, travel etc. Or it may be choosing a lazy day with books and papers. This is your time, there is no timetable. Explore all possibilities and enjoy this special time in your life. ?

Clickgran Sat 22-Jul-17 21:17:45

Whitewave, you have just reminded me that I had bought watercolour pastels and artists pad about ten years ago and I put them away saying I may have time to use them when I retire! I'll have to look for them. Good idea JackyB tacking it a month at a time. I think I was feeling a bit overwhelmed, but am much better after all your suggestions. Thank you

DerekY Sat 29-Jul-17 19:53:23

I had to retire early due to having a stroke, but I used it to start a local disabled charity which is needed in a village outside Rotherham. Rmbc did away with the disability officer 9 yrs ago. Parish council had not got the foggiest. When checking with the local health centre I was quoted around 260 disabled. Yet the Papworth trust says there is a ratio of 1 in 5 that are disabled in england. I have just got involved recently in setting up thr Rotherham Disability Network. Pleas help in your area if you are a carer for someone who is disabled especiwlly with the smaller disabled charities as the bigger ones only support any that comes under there area,s and Age uk leave a lot to be desired when helpin disabled people especially in communicating and helping on a weekly basis.