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Post-menopausal protest

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vampirequeen Sat 01-Apr-17 09:20:13

OK so I was ready to rip my coat off in the snow due to hot sweats. But I wasn't ready for:

the threat of turning into St Barbara if I don't pluck facial hair

or

getting out of my chair to get a pen. Doing half a dozen things such as taking the milk out of the cupboard and putting it in the fridge then after sitting down again realising I still haven't got a pen.

or

a repeat of teenage acne angst.

Feeling aggrieved but deciding to deal with it I went to Sainsbury's spotty face section. The last time I needed to treat spots there were two things on the market. You could buy Clearasil cream or toner. Simple choice. Is it like that now? Not on your Nellie. I was faced with an array of creams, lotions, cleansers, wipes.....you name it and they sell it. What to buy? Indecision is my middle name (another menopausal change). Ended up with witch hazel toning wipes.

Aaarrrrrrrggggghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! When will it end?????????

Iam64 Tue 04-Apr-17 18:52:11

What about nose hair?! My legs and many other regions have much less visible hair than previously, my nose is another issue altogether. I've resorted to plucking, ouch, though I'm told tiny scissors is the way to go. that maybe so if eye sight was as spot on as it was prior to nose hair appearing.

grannypiper Tue 04-Apr-17 20:18:26

Esspee You are right but i keep hoping for a miracle grin

Chewbacca Tue 04-Apr-17 20:22:18

The nose hair and the sudden appearance of one, single enormous wiry hair that grows at at 90 degree angle out of my left eyebrow always the left eyebrow . I swear it's never there when I get ready for work in the morning but it's there when I get home in the evening.

Esspee Tue 04-Apr-17 23:41:47

Grannypiper, The miracle comes in patches these days. Why not take oestrogen instead of looking for substitutes. It is like replacing your batteries when you go on HRT. Two days after my hysterectomy the oestrogen kicked in and my surgeon found me busy repotting all the plants in the day room. Hadn't felt better in years. That was 27 years ago. Last week I took a friend to have an eye operation, the nurse then the doctor both referred to her as my mother - fortunately out of her earshot as she is only 7 years older than me!

Esspee Tue 04-Apr-17 23:46:34

Iam64, You can buy a nasal hair trimmer for a few pounds. Very easy to use even if your vision is not great. I use one on my OH. Have to pin him down but it is essential as nothing is less attractive than a hairy nose.grin

Iam64 Wed 05-Apr-17 07:34:30

Ahh I'll have a look in Boots to see if I can find one, thanks Esspee

grannypiper Wed 05-Apr-17 08:35:32

Esspee i took HRT 6 months after my Hysterectomy and i felt fantastic with no hot flushes but then i started getting cramp in my leg and a little warning light came on in my brain(it takes a while) and i remembered that i had a DVT during my last pregnancy many years ago. I mentioned all of this to my GP and he went white and told me to stop the HRT straight away. I should never have been on it in the first place. 3 weeks later the hot flushes came back sad but it could be worse.

Charly Sat 15-Apr-17 02:07:07

Thank you so much, Esspee, for taking the trouble to explain all this to me. I'll think on it some more & maybe have a talk with my doc.

It does seem like my flushes are getting slightly less frequent now, however, maybe because I've learnt to put comfort first and to not get myself so stressed out any longer, about things and people I can't change or control. Spot, the flushes are vile though, so understand!

Night sweats are still very trying too!