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Katek Tue 21-Mar-17 11:41:27

I accompanied DH to a hospital appt last week and was waiting outside by the layout map while he went to get the car. Our hospital is totally non smoking for staff and visitors alike, both inside and in the grounds. Two extremely large ladies exited the building and were also looking at the plan. One said to the other "it's all no smoking but I don't give a f***" and proceeded to light up right next to me. Being a chronic asthmatic I started to cough and was rounded on by the woman with the fag before I couid move away and accused of putting it on! It was quite intimidating as she was extremely large in all directions. I drew myself up to my full 5' and gave her a hard stare whilst taking my reliever inhaler out of my pocket and brandishing it. She opened her mouth to say something but DH drew up and I got into the car. Why can't people just think before they do things? Sorry, she did think for a nano second and decided she didn't give a f***. I was furious but very little I could do.

notanan Thu 30-Mar-17 22:14:47

Argh I'm so fed up of people saying that passive vaping is just water vapour

It's not! if it was people wouldn't do it!
It doesn't smell like water vapour
It doesn't feel like water vapour when I pass someone vaping and it catches me right at the back of my throat
it doesn't smell like water vapour

What annoys me about vaping is that people do it in situations where it would be rude to smoke, and if you move away they bark "it's just water vapour"

annsixty Thu 30-Mar-17 23:06:57

Last weekend we stayed in a Premier Inn. The notice in the rooms which previously said Strictly no smoking now says Strictly no smoking or vaping. They must have their reasons. The smoke detectors will detect either. They wouldn't detect water vapour surely?

f77ms Fri 31-Mar-17 07:53:26

I am an x smoker , 3 years since I had a ciggy . Vaping is not harmful , only emits water vapour etc but sometimes has a flavour included which has a smell . The hand fanning , over exaggerated coughing brigade really get on my nerves , car exhausts emit much nastier , cough inducing vapours than cigarettes which never seem to affect those people in the same way .

gillybob Fri 31-Mar-17 08:04:19

I've also noticed the tendency for smokers to hold the cigarette away from themselves sunseeker (presumably so the smoke doesn't go all over them or waft in their faces) with no consideration whatsoever for the people sitting/standing beside them

gillybob Fri 31-Mar-17 08:05:59

I am so glad I have never smoked as I don't know how anyone could possibly afford it. I can totally appreciate that it is an addiction and must be very hard to give up, even when you might desperately want to.

Katek Fri 31-Mar-17 11:02:27

f77ms - I can assure you that I do not 'hand flap' or over exaggerate coughing. Regardless of the rights/wrongs of smokers/non smokers the fact remains that smoking is prohibited in the area in which I was standing. I should not have felt I had to move or comment. Rules is rules.

Elegran Fri 31-Mar-17 11:17:02

Perhaps you should have given one ladylike gasp and passed out gracefully at the feet of the smokers, Katek. Fighting for breath, coughing, and trying to dispel the gases that were choking you is SO theatrical and melodramatic!

Smokers would do well to remember their very first ciggie before they allow their smoke into the lungs of non-smokers - you know, the one that made you splutter and gasp as your throat burned and your eyes watered, and you felt sick and maybe even threw up. That was before your body became addicted, stopped reacting and accepted the effects as normal.

rosesarered Fri 31-Mar-17 14:18:40

I remember that well Elegran as I was 12 and in a pig sty at the time ( t'pigs were gambolling about in the field) and I was with two friends.One of them had a Woodbine and a box of matches, and we were all very excited by our naughtiness.Good grief, it was disgusting but we all pretended to enjoy it while feeling sick.

Elegran Fri 31-Mar-17 14:43:46

I bet the pigs were unimpressed.