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morethan2 Fri 16-Dec-16 07:12:03

Recently my husband and I (sounds rather royal doesn't it but I can't think of another phrase) were comparing our 1950's childhoods. We were doing it with great nostalgia, not in a 'I was poorer than you way' These were some of the things we remembered that you wouldn't expect today. We both remembered being hit by teachers. Him with a leather strapshockme with a ruler. Me:-1 accompanying my dad to a disused railway line to dig up the old wood for a fire.2 old itchy army coats for bedding.3 thinking Thursdays were wonderful because our mum told us we had a special tea of jam and bread. Then the treat of having to walk about 8 miles to see my dad at work on Friday and him passing his wage packet through the fence and getting the bus home and getting one bar of chocolate between us. I now realise that the money had run out on Wednesday. Him 1, walking the streets with his dad and picking up cigarette buts and putting them in a tin. 2 waiting in a queue for soup and rissoles from the nuns (he's Irish) We both remember being cold but it not bothering us too much. We both said we never felt poor because everyone we knew lived similar lives. Our poor poor parents how worrying it must have been bringing up a family in such poverty. I hope some of you will share some of your experiences with me. We can get all nostalgic together, or not oh now I remember having to wash your hair over the kitchen sink using a jug and not so warm water. [ shudder emotion]

Bellanonna Fri 06-Jan-17 01:14:00

Hair washing definitely not allowed either.

Falconbird Fri 06-Jan-17 08:31:28

I remember one Sunday when I wanted to wash my hair. I was about 15. There was no shampoo in the house so I washed my hair in Omo. It came out quite well. I had to boil three kettles of water when I washed my hair and kept the kettles under the bathroom sink, big risk of burning toes so bare feet were a no no.

etheltbags1 Sat 14-Jan-17 21:51:01

Sounds terrible, I used doc whites and was e mbarrased to ask a man in the shop. Nowadays I still can't discuss things like this with a man. Even today buying ten a for my mother I look around to see if a man is near. I used to hide a pad in my pocket of my school blazer so I did not have to poke in my bag in front of anyone. I used to make excuses such as having a cold when we went swimming.

morethan2 Sat 14-Jan-17 21:55:01

Falconbird I'd forgotten how horrible it was to wash your hair over the sink. Ordinary life is much more comfortable now

NfkDumpling Sun 15-Jan-17 07:38:12

Wonderful thread. Thank you all for taking me back as I sit in my centrally heated house.

I remember taking my mum for her weekly drive around the countryside just before she died and driving along a bit of new (for Norfolk) dual carriageway with electricity pylons running along both sides. I apologised for taking her that way through rubbish scenery and she said that she loved the pylons they meant freedom. Real freedom for women. Electricity had liberated women more than anything else. Even gas. It led to a long reminisce about my childhood and how things were just after the war. And she was right. Electricity did liberate women.

That and tampons!

morethan2 Sun 15-Jan-17 08:09:23

And reliable contraception NfkDumplin smile

morethan2 Sun 15-Jan-17 08:10:10

Sorry forgot the g

NfkDumpling Sun 15-Jan-17 12:54:53

What's a g between friends. And yes, proper contraception.