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morethan2 Fri 16-Dec-16 07:12:03

Recently my husband and I (sounds rather royal doesn't it but I can't think of another phrase) were comparing our 1950's childhoods. We were doing it with great nostalgia, not in a 'I was poorer than you way' These were some of the things we remembered that you wouldn't expect today. We both remembered being hit by teachers. Him with a leather strapshockme with a ruler. Me:-1 accompanying my dad to a disused railway line to dig up the old wood for a fire.2 old itchy army coats for bedding.3 thinking Thursdays were wonderful because our mum told us we had a special tea of jam and bread. Then the treat of having to walk about 8 miles to see my dad at work on Friday and him passing his wage packet through the fence and getting the bus home and getting one bar of chocolate between us. I now realise that the money had run out on Wednesday. Him 1, walking the streets with his dad and picking up cigarette buts and putting them in a tin. 2 waiting in a queue for soup and rissoles from the nuns (he's Irish) We both remember being cold but it not bothering us too much. We both said we never felt poor because everyone we knew lived similar lives. Our poor poor parents how worrying it must have been bringing up a family in such poverty. I hope some of you will share some of your experiences with me. We can get all nostalgic together, or not oh now I remember having to wash your hair over the kitchen sink using a jug and not so warm water. [ shudder emotion]

NfkDumpling Sun 15-Jan-17 12:54:53

What's a g between friends. And yes, proper contraception.

morethan2 Sun 15-Jan-17 08:10:10

Sorry forgot the g

morethan2 Sun 15-Jan-17 08:09:23

And reliable contraception NfkDumplin smile

NfkDumpling Sun 15-Jan-17 07:38:12

Wonderful thread. Thank you all for taking me back as I sit in my centrally heated house.

I remember taking my mum for her weekly drive around the countryside just before she died and driving along a bit of new (for Norfolk) dual carriageway with electricity pylons running along both sides. I apologised for taking her that way through rubbish scenery and she said that she loved the pylons they meant freedom. Real freedom for women. Electricity had liberated women more than anything else. Even gas. It led to a long reminisce about my childhood and how things were just after the war. And she was right. Electricity did liberate women.

That and tampons!

morethan2 Sat 14-Jan-17 21:55:01

Falconbird I'd forgotten how horrible it was to wash your hair over the sink. Ordinary life is much more comfortable now

etheltbags1 Sat 14-Jan-17 21:51:01

Sounds terrible, I used doc whites and was e mbarrased to ask a man in the shop. Nowadays I still can't discuss things like this with a man. Even today buying ten a for my mother I look around to see if a man is near. I used to hide a pad in my pocket of my school blazer so I did not have to poke in my bag in front of anyone. I used to make excuses such as having a cold when we went swimming.

Falconbird Fri 06-Jan-17 08:31:28

I remember one Sunday when I wanted to wash my hair. I was about 15. There was no shampoo in the house so I washed my hair in Omo. It came out quite well. I had to boil three kettles of water when I washed my hair and kept the kettles under the bathroom sink, big risk of burning toes so bare feet were a no no.

Bellanonna Fri 06-Jan-17 01:14:00

Hair washing definitely not allowed either.

Bellanonna Fri 06-Jan-17 01:11:40

Oh I remember those. And Southalls Santowels.

Grandma2213 Fri 06-Jan-17 00:58:10

STs and Sanitary belts - yuk! No wonder our periods were known as 'the curse'!

On a lighter note. Imagine the hilarity when we had a new Science teacher at our school. His name was Doctor White!

whitewave Thu 05-Jan-17 18:01:52

polly I believed the same!!! But honestly given the lack of information I bet there were some men who were ignorant of such things.

Ana Thu 05-Jan-17 17:58:08

pollyperkins, but you just couldn't go swimming when you had a period wearing a sanitary towel! shock

The other things older women said were just daft though, such as the hair-washing.

pollyperkins Thu 05-Jan-17 17:43:56

Not too old grin

KatyK Thu 05-Jan-17 17:27:42

My DH once bought his mother a packet of sanitary towels for her birthday. He had no idea what they were but had seen her buying them in Woolworths so he knew she liked them smile

NotTooOld Thu 05-Jan-17 17:11:31

pollyperkins, you made me laugh when you wrote 'How glad I am that that is all behind me!' Sorry - just my silly sense of humour.

pollyperkins Thu 05-Jan-17 16:50:09

And my Mum told me not to go swimming or even wash my hair when I had a period!

pollyperkins Thu 05-Jan-17 16:49:21

I was convinced that periods were a female secret that no men knew about as it was never mentioned in mixed company. I was terribly embarrassed about buying S Ts as they were called, especially if the chemist was male, and begged my mum to get them for me. They were horrible things too. How glad i am that that is all behind me!

Grandma2213 Thu 05-Jan-17 01:05:41

Elrel I have the same Santa in a chimney and green bristle Christmas tree in my cake decorating box though I have not made a Christmas cake in 40 years as nobody in my family likes them! I wonder if they were bought in Woolworths - most of my things were!

Elrel Wed 04-Jan-17 22:38:36

I remember them on the top shelf in the corner grocery shop in the '50s, wrapped in plain brown paper.

annodomini Wed 04-Jan-17 16:16:12

When I was a teenager, a neighbour asked me to go to the chemist and get her a box of Tampax. I was sooooo embarrassed blush! How times have changed. My GD, aged 14 quite openly mentions periods and protection in front of her father and brother and anyone else who happens to be there.

AlieOxon Wed 04-Jan-17 15:50:57

Have to try that. I have found some via google.

Elegran Wed 04-Jan-17 14:04:11

My Firefox doesn't mind. Does yours do that to all of them? To them when you find them on Google?

AlieOxon Wed 04-Jan-17 13:09:58

Elegran My Firefox is stopping me from getting in. says not secure site....bother.

goldengirl Wed 04-Jan-17 12:00:07

My mum was a dancer and used tampons! She was born in 1920.

Elegran Wed 04-Jan-17 11:09:50

Some of them didn't blue. I'll try again. how is this?
www.mum.org/whatwore.htm
susannaives.com/wordpress/2015/09/tidbits-on-mid-victorian-era-menstrual-hygiene/
georgianlondon.com/post/49464043356/on-flowers-a-short-but-frank-post-on-how-18th
www.gregjenner.com/history-periods/
little-details.livejournal.com/2445819.html