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Anniebach Tue 29-Nov-16 10:29:46

The house move is driving me mad. Was moving in October . Then council decided to install new kitchen. I booked furniture removals, decorators , cleaner, carpet layer etc. for Decrmber.

Still no kitchen, decorators not working for two weeks over Christmas and New Year , cleaners away for the week before Christmas yet if the kitchen is ready in two weeks I am expected to move within two weeks .

bet it will snow sad and younger daughter waiting to book her skiing holiday

kittylester Wed 30-Nov-16 07:16:49

Not much more to say, Ab but here are some flowers for your spanking new kitchen!

Anniebach Wed 30-Nov-16 10:52:29

Housing officer telephoned this morning. Work on kitchen starting next Tuesday . I will have the tenancy of the property after New Year and they will scrap the two week rule of me holding the two tenancies and extend it to FOUR WEEKS to give me time to move. Yippee.

My son in law is back in the country though January so they can come down here to help.

I am sure all the good thoughts here reached her

Thank you all X

Ana Wed 30-Nov-16 11:37:32

Great news Annie! smile

rosesarered Wed 30-Nov-16 11:41:25

Yes, good news for you.....the power of Gransnet good wishes! tchsmile

Disgruntled Wed 30-Nov-16 11:44:09

Oh, phew, hallelujah!
Would you consider taking arnica for your finger? It's great for lessening bruising.
flowers

cornergran Wed 30-Nov-16 11:59:49

Such good news, Annie. smile

radicalnan Wed 30-Nov-16 12:01:13

Sorry about the finger.

Just let the hassles go and make it the best makeshift Christmas ever. Sometimes chaos is a good thing (says the Queen of chaos) can you go to friends for lunch or the pub.

In the overall scheme of things it is just one day, winter moves, summer moves, bloody moves in general are all fraught with problems but you are about to make an exciting leap at time when new neighbours may feel enabled to call and start new friendships....

Councils do seem to consider that they are dealing with units rather than people.......but mulled wine and chocolate cure most things, as the light comes back after Christmas you won't know yourself for excitements of you new place.

Barmyoldbat Wed 30-Nov-16 12:03:21

[flower]wine

Barmyoldbat Wed 30-Nov-16 12:04:38

Wheres me bunch of flowers gone, try again flowers. Forgot the s

Diddy1 Wed 30-Nov-16 15:29:11

Annie sorry to hear about your finger, you will not be able to do so much now, so try to take things easy, and let others do the work, just supervise.Good luck with your finger and with the move.

Nelliemoser Wed 30-Nov-16 16:00:53

AnnieBach what a B nuisance for you . Rant away if it helps.(((hugs)))

Luckygirl Wed 30-Nov-16 16:05:04

It is so exciting though that things are shaping up for your move - New Year, New Home!

Legs55 Wed 30-Nov-16 16:32:03

Annie just seen your good news. Sorry to hear about finger, hope it heals soon - take it easy & let others take some of the strain.

It's horrible when you've no control over timing - when I moved last year I sold to a cash buyer who needed to be in within 3 weeks (Park Home), so Removal firm booked (they packed ornaments, china & glass), everything into storage apart from personal possessions & some clothes which went with me. I moved out on Monday & went to stay with my DD, Storage Unit filled on Tuesday by my lovely Removal firm, Wednesday went to view a Property & made an offer, Thursday just before we left to go & look for a car for DD Estate Agent phoned, offer accepted but could I go with Bank Statements (to prove I had funds) & Driving Licence for ID, Car purchased for DD.

Then problems started, Solicitors were dealing with sale although it was a Park Home, owner had died & to make matters worse Park Owner had died & there was a lack of paperwork, I moved in 6 weeks later (after a variety of temporary accommodation) but I didn't own my home & couldn't dispose of furniture etc until it was all signed over. Another 5 weeks until I had paid for it so no chance to re-carpet as I needed to get my furniture out of storage (£££).

On the bright side I love my new home & I'm nearer DD & DGS, new arrival due end of May & lots of new friends.

Sorry this is such a long post but good luck & I'm sure it'll all work out for the best. brewcupcake or if you prefer wineflowers

Morgana Wed 30-Nov-16 19:13:26

Good luck with the move. Re post about using arnica: I always use the cream now as I am not sure how the tablets might react with my normal medication. Fingers crossed for a successful move.

Anniebach Wed 30-Nov-16 21:13:22

I am taking arnica thanks.

What a difficult time some have had moving house , you have my sympathy

Well , just over a month and I should have the key, I have waited nearly seventeen years for this bungalow , will really believe I have it when I sign the tenancy agreement and am clutching the keys ?

Bez1989 Thu 01-Dec-16 00:22:07

OH ANNIEBACH....that will be such an exciting time moving into your
new "Forever Home" as Kirstie Allsop
calls it. (I love her enthusiasm)

You will be so happy you'll forget all the hassle in getting there...broken finger included.

In the mean time enjoy all the planning.
Yes colour coding boxes is good for the removel men. Plus a smile and a grateful attitude towards them will work wonders.

Before I moved into a house.... after spending 20 or so years in flats of one kind or another......I drew a scale plan of the main living room and then scale peices of paper labelled with the name of each piece of furniture.

I then had great fun moving them all around "in the room" on paper, to get the best layout.

It saved a lot of time once in the actual room instead of "umming and arrrring"about each piece of furniture and where it should go.

Anyway ANNIEBACH I wish you well and hope you LOVE your new home, when you get there.
flowerscupcakewinesunshine

Yorkshiregel Thu 01-Dec-16 16:19:38

I moved 15 times with my Mum and Dad, RAF MQs. Then I went and did the same with OH. Madness. We threw out a lot of stuff and sold a lot of stuff I would rather have kept, but we could not take it with us and it would have cost an arm and a leg to store for 3+ yrs and then another 3+ years abroad.

Now I am beginning to think I am lucky. Most of the clutter has gone, I made sure that 3 sons cleared their stuff out of the loft before they decided to leave it with us. They have their own loft! Anyway when we are gone it would mean they would have had to do it then.

So, sorry you are feeling frustrated about your move, but look on the bright side. You can use this as an opportunity to de-clutter! Excellent! Hope your finger soon gets better.