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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

Grannyknot Tue 29-Nov-16 19:17:27

I think candlefran is JBF jolly blinking fun.

It's the "soz" what gave it away.

Shanma Tue 29-Nov-16 20:14:36

Oh I see Jalima. hmm Surely the whole point of being on GN or any other forum is to state things in a post, cannot see you reasoning here. I have not been rude I have merely said I will ignore a poster whom I find irritating. That's all. Sorry I don't fit into the simpering agree with everything/everyone bracket.

On the one hand people are saying GN is way too bland , then on the other quite the opposite. What it boils down to as far as I can see is that if you are part of the clique then say what you like, if not then be a good old granny and sit quietly and read, but don't whatever you do post, unless of course you agree with every single gem( Not) dropped by the Queens of the clique.

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 20:22:29

Shanma I wasn't arguing your right to ignore whomsoever you like, just pointing out the semantics in that case.
Um, if you don't think saying that is rude then so be it.

I'm not in any clique either.

But I see no necessity to call people names.

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 20:23:03

Grannyknot shhhh

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 20:24:28

Bit late now...in both respects!

rosesarered Tue 29-Nov-16 21:50:19

Outed!

rosesarered Tue 29-Nov-16 21:51:57

Both.....?

Grannyknot Tue 29-Nov-16 21:52:17

It really wasn't that difficult. #hidinginplainsight

rosesarered Tue 29-Nov-16 21:53:10

wot I enjoy your ramblings.tchsmile

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 21:55:41

I do too smile

(I refuse to put a Christmas hat on my emojis while it's still November!!)

rosesarered Tue 29-Nov-16 21:57:27

Purist!

Anniebach Tue 29-Nov-16 22:04:33

Shanma, you are so wrong, I don't belong to a clique, I post when I choose and no one can say everyone agrees with me - if only

wot Tue 29-Nov-16 23:21:33

Thank you fans....autographs at the stage door!!

Shanma Wed 30-Nov-16 00:00:24

I didn't call anyone names!¬ You obviously have not read my posts properly Jalima. If you can show me where I have done this then show it to me, you will not find it.

Anya Wed 30-Nov-16 09:33:09

Fair point.

Nelliemoser Wed 30-Nov-16 10:12:01

Mccarthyism seems to be alive and well on GN.

"I have never been a member of the Communist Party, I am not now a member, I cannot imagine becoming a member, and I do not sympathize with the Communist principles and procedures to which the Regents and you and, I am sure, the faculty are opposed."
Eat your heart out Arthur Miller. We will be having GN witch hunts next.

Jalima Wed 30-Nov-16 10:54:30

Please feel free to ignore me Shanma

mumofmadboys yes, she did have a certain quirky attitude towards life (if you could untangle the meaning grin)

Shanma Wed 30-Nov-16 20:07:25

Pathetic comment Nelliemoser. Been digging deep to scrape the barrel.

Anya Wed 30-Nov-16 20:11:44

That's uncalled for Shanma - didn't you just deny calling 'anyone names'?

Isn't attacking someone's post as 'pathetic' and the rest form of name calling?

Elegran Wed 30-Nov-16 20:20:39

There is a line between being free to have an opinion on a subject and using that freedom as licence to rubbish someone else. You have crossed that line more than once, shanma

wot Wed 30-Nov-16 20:34:29

For God's sake pack it in and let's be friends again!!

Alima Wed 30-Nov-16 20:58:40

Don't think there's much chance of that wot. Some seem to thrive on animosity.
We've got a friendly, cosy, comforting thread in Soop's kitchen. Conversely, could we have one representing the darker side and call it Hell's Kitchen. Anyone fancying a rant, slagging off etc could visit with impunity. Clear orf yer wizened old trout, yer talking through the top of yer 'ead! F...wit! You know, that sort of thing. Bit like the Politics thread but designated nastiness.

Anya Wed 30-Nov-16 20:59:32

wot

Elegran and I are trying to keep the peace.

NanaandGrampy Wed 30-Nov-16 21:02:21

I love that idea Alima Hells Kitchen! You'd know exactly what you were getting !

wot Wed 30-Nov-16 21:04:50

Good idea, alima. At least we'd be forewarned. Anya, I appreciate that. But surely we are all "old bags together" and have enough strife in our lives without fighting on here?well, I am an old bag.