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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

DaphneBroon Tue 29-Nov-16 17:57:50

tbgrintbgrin
Aye, right!

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 18:26:57

Not sure how finding someone irritating and deciding not to read or respond to her posts is " Bloody rude and obnoxious"

It's not the fact that someone finds someone irritating and doesn't bother to read or respond to their posts that is bloody rude and obnoxious, it is the fact that it is stated in a post that is bloody rude and obnoxious.

There is a difference.
No-one would ever know unless it is stated.

Can't think what kittylester has ever done to upset anyone

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 18:31:41

ps not entering the fray, just pointing out the semantics.

[tbhgrin]

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 18:32:18

Oh f*

brew

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:38:30

Neither can (see changes) It all seems the same to me.

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:39:07

I got missed out there. Siz

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:39:56

I mean 'I'. Not I got missed out

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 18:40:59

New name, Candlefran? I thought you'd been here before...

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:41:00

soz

I'll shut up

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 18:41:38

are you sozzled Candlefran?

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 18:41:52

oh, sorry, we are not allowed to mention wine

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 18:42:32

I should have emphasised the thought in my previous post!

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:44:25

Pardon Ana? confused

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:45:47

Is it allowable to question a poster's sobriety? Surely not! shock

wot Tue 29-Nov-16 18:48:34

Yes, it is allowed, Candlefran. I have had my sobriety questioned because I often post daft remarks and ramble on.

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:50:00

That's dreadful wot. wine

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 18:52:54

Candlefran, I was asking whether you are a returning GN member now posting under a new name. You do seem familiar somehow, and you mention not noticing any changes in the last three years.

I'm sure you knew what I meant really, but of course you don't have to answer! smile

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 18:57:06

It was the mincemeat! grin

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 18:58:16

Oh uh a VC e been reading Gransnet got u ears, and mum's NJ et BH before but that Ana

Ana Tue 29-Nov-16 18:59:33

Yep. Sozzled...grin

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 19:00:00

I didn't type that!!! Got a new phone! its crap It has a mind of its own.

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 19:01:31

roastchicken

Jalima Tue 29-Nov-16 19:03:32

I am v impressed that anyone can do anything on a phone except make phone calls.

wot Tue 29-Nov-16 19:06:59

I didn't mind being thought sozzled actually! Sometimes I have been but on a diet now so not indulging!

Candlefran Tue 29-Nov-16 19:12:30

Making and answering calls on it was the hardest part.