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PRINTMISS Fri 25-Nov-16 08:19:36

One of the few days when I was totally organised. The small beef joint had cooked to perfection, the potatoes par-boiled ready for roasting, the vegetables prepared. An hour in the garden, there were three pots needed planting up, and then hang out the washing! OUCH!! Not part of the plan at all, flat on my back - heard the hip crack. Spent half an hour yelling for help - my husband is indoors listening to the gardening programme and I realise I am in a very enclosed space blocking my calls. Drag myself (painfully) nearer to a gap and spent another half hour yelling, and then just as I lifted myself up to call again, I noticed our opposite neighbours curtain move and frantically waved - she had heard my previous calls but not seen me behind the pots. The para-medic came within 20 minutes, and I then waited another 1 hour and 40 minutes for the ambulance. I had been on the ground for three hours. The para-medic was furious, my husband worried to death, and I was in pain! However, we have one of the best hospitals in the country here, and the treatment I received was excellent (except I can't understand why I was put in the geriatric ward!) I was home within 10 days, and although I am using a walking aid, can walk unaided for short distances.
The other half is not so cocky now - always convinced he would 'manage' on his own - perhaps once upon a time, but his eyesight now is not so good, and close writing is difficult for him. He can't see the time settings on the cooker or the buttons on the microwave, so he seemed to live in tinned soup, fish and chips and tea and biscuits. Which when you come to think of it is a great deal more than some folk have.
Thought you might like to know what had happened to me! Enjoy your days

Alima Fri 25-Nov-16 08:28:18

What an awful day for you Printmiss. So glad that you are safe and on the mend now. (Sounds like DH will be more appreciative now too!)

glammanana Fri 25-Nov-16 08:28:48

You poor thing I hope you are dealing with the pain and getting some rest after such an ordeal,such a good job you have a neighbour who heard you calling and hubby didn't decide to have forty winks as my hubby does when he is listening to the radio.At least now you are home and can rest as the geriatric wards are rather noisy aren't they and you can't relax and recover properly.Take care and bless you hubby with his efforts.flowers

Greyduster Fri 25-Nov-16 08:46:58

I'm glad you are on the mend Printmiss, and I sympathise with you. I had a fall on our upstairs landing a couple of months ago, landing heavily. I couldn't get up to start with. DH was downstairs in the kitchen and I called and called but he didn't hear me. I eventually managed to get myself downstairs and it was "why didn't you call me?" Unlike you, I was only battered and bruised. It reinforced my efforts to get him to have an hearing aid, but he won't accept that there's a ting wrong with his hearing. There's a possibility I may have to have surgery in the new year, and DH said yesterday "I suppose I should learn to cook some stuff, shouldn't I?" Well, yes, you would live on beans on toast, but it's not going to cut the mustard with me! Aren't they wonderful?

Grannyknot Fri 25-Nov-16 08:52:07

When my husband first took on cooking duties, he would literally copy the "serving suggestion" picture on the front of the ready meal box! grin

Get well soon printmiss

Anya Fri 25-Nov-16 08:55:30

What a dreadful thing to happen PRINTMISS - not sure from your post if you fell and broke your hip or it broke without warning and caused your fall.

Either way it a dreadful experience. Good that your neighbour heard you. A woman who lived alone, not far from us, fell in her garden and no one heard her calls.

Here's hoping you're completely on the road to recovery flowers

annsixty Fri 25-Nov-16 09:00:28

So sorry to hear this PRINTMISS. I did remark on Good morning you hadn't been posting. I wish you a speedy recovery and a painfree convalescence. Good luck with the help from your H, I am sure he is doing his best!!

harrigran Fri 25-Nov-16 09:05:16

Sorry to hear of your accident Printmiss flowers
DH never seems to hear me when I call to him, in the house, I use the telephone as a pager to alert him.

hildajenniJ Fri 25-Nov-16 09:07:14

I've been wondering where you were PRINTMISS. I've missed you. What a calamity, I'm glad to hear that you are recovering. Hopefully it won't be long until you can get back to bowls ☺. I'm glad your DH managed to feed himself! Let's hope it won't be long before you're all back to normal. ☺?☕

Jane10 Fri 25-Nov-16 09:16:59

Very best wishes for a speedy return to optimum condition PRINTMISS. Glad to hear you're back home and online!

kittylester Fri 25-Nov-16 09:34:39

We did miss you on Good Morning so thank you for letting us know. I hope you get back to normal soon!flowers

LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 25-Nov-16 09:38:00

flowers from us at GNHQ PRINTMISS. Hope you are on the mend soon. And good to hear you were so well looked after at the hospital.

thatbags Fri 25-Nov-16 09:59:01

Oof! What an unpleasant experience, printmiss! I'm glad to hear you had good treatment and are on the mend. Take care, and maybe carry a mobile phone flowers

DaphneBroon Fri 25-Nov-16 10:01:07

What a terrifying experience PRINTMISS and I am full of admiration that you sound so chipper. One of my fellow grannies (SIL's mum) fell down her stairs in August breaking her leg in two places and was also unable to attract her DH's attention as he was at the other end of the garden and is also quite deaf. Somehow she dragged herself to the phone and dialled 999 for herself. She was in a full leg plaster for weeks and weeks.
It is a lesson, perhaps to have the mobile in the pocket even within the confines of our own house or garden.
I hope you are not in too much pain and that DH can cope so that you do not feel you have to take over again. flowers
(Internet shopping and ready or prepared meals would be my recommendation)

Marelli Fri 25-Nov-16 10:05:28

What a nightmare, Printmiss. You must have been so frightened.
Thank goodness someone saw you. Glad to hear you're on the mend now. flowers

Gagagran Fri 25-Nov-16 10:10:38

I am really sorry to hear of your accident PRINTMISS - it must have been a real ordeal. Maybe you and your other half need a plan for any mishaps in the future?

Hoping you make a speedy recovery and are not in too much pain. Good old St Richard's eh? flowers

rosesarered Fri 25-Nov-16 10:12:20

I did think that I hadn't seen you posting for a while PRINTMISS thank goodness that your neighbour did see you in the garden.How very dare they put you in a geriatric ward!grin Glad that you are back home again and on the mend.?

seacliff Fri 25-Nov-16 10:15:47

Oh that sounds so frightening, and out of the blue. Glad you are recovering now. OH will be very appreciative of you now.

shysal Fri 25-Nov-16 10:16:56

flowers to you PRINTMISS. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Look after yourself.

Elegran Fri 25-Nov-16 10:26:03

A dreadful ordeal, printmiss, being stuck with no-one hearing your calls. One very good reason for keeping a mobile phone in your pocket at all times!

Bellanonna Fri 25-Nov-16 10:33:12

What an awful thing to happen PRINTMISS. It can't have been too warm at the end of October so hope you didn't get too chilled lying there waiting to be heard. Thank goodness your neighbour was at home. Hope you are recovering well and the mobile in the pocket is a good idea.?

annodomini Fri 25-Nov-16 10:45:38

What a nightmare for you Printmiss. Lots of us live in dread of having a fall and it's a hazardous time of year with soggy or icy leaves all over the place. Did they pin your hip or replace it? I'm so glad you are comfortable now and able to get around at home but no gardening for you and do send your DH out to hang up the washing. flowers

morethan2 Fri 25-Nov-16 11:02:11

I'm glad your on the mend Printmiss it sound a scary thing to have happened. I expect you'll have to be patient with yourself and your husband while you recover. Take it easy and don't over do things. Just sit and post on G.N. The television is full of cheesy Christmas films for you to watch a during your recovery wink flowers

hulahoop Fri 25-Nov-16 11:06:06

Glad you are on the mend print miss I fell on landing called hubby but he didn't hear
Me luckily I eventually managed to get up and only bruised knees to show for it .?

Pittcity Fri 25-Nov-16 11:48:53

All the best Printmiss . That's another thing that GN has taught me - train DH to look after himself. Mine would shop and cook but would have no clean plates etc. or clothes and has no idea about household admin.