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BlueBelle Fri 09-Sept-16 13:50:53

Maybe I am the only one but maybe not
Do you ever talk to yourself?

nancyma Fri 09-Sept-16 18:22:23

Of course I do and I have intense discussions with my dogs and they completely understand my point of view and agree wholeheartedly with me; the cat, however, is another story !

nanaK54 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:24:27

Oh yes

morethan2 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:29:52

Yes I do. I hope I don't do it in public though. It's how I sort things out in my head and control my worries. I sort of thought we all did it to some degree. I also purposely daydream to cheer myself up.i have favourite scenarios in my head that I return to on a regular basis. Oh dear hope I'm the only one.

morethan2 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:31:22

Not the only one

Badenkate Fri 09-Sept-16 18:59:43

Often. Lots of times it's the only way to have a sensible conversation

Crafting Fri 09-Sept-16 19:55:32

Yup. Me too. Me, myself and I often have a reply good chat grin

MaggieMay60 Fri 09-Sept-16 20:49:09

Talking to your handbag Maggie, that made me laugh out loud. I have very one sided conversations with my cat and dog and sometimes the other half. Its when I get the strange looks in the supermarket that I get worried as I realise I am doing it again!grin grin grin

phoenix Fri 09-Sept-16 20:56:26

Maggiemaybe grin grin

rosesarered Fri 09-Sept-16 22:30:09

Not out loud, but we all do in our headas, don't we? Don't we?!
Once told the cat to get off the bed ( not allowed) and it turned out to be my woolly Winter hat.

Ana Fri 09-Sept-16 22:52:39

Glad it's not just me who doesn't actually do it out loud, roses...

Maggiemaybe Fri 09-Sept-16 23:01:30

It turns out the Great British moggie is a master of disguise! grin

notnecessarilywiser Sat 10-Sept-16 01:01:18

Similar to NonnaW - I frequently talk to myself and if anyone has the temerity to remark on it I tell them I get a much better class of conversation when doing so!

BlueBelle Sat 10-Sept-16 03:36:33

Oh doing it your head is normal that's part of living, thinking, being, its the out loud or even out soft that is the definition here

LullyDully Sat 10-Sept-16 08:15:07

All.the time. If I am feeling particularly bad with my arthritis I say ".come on Granny or.come on Mrs T you can do it." Surely everyone talk to themselves, only way to get the right answer.

Elysium Sat 10-Sept-16 09:26:56

Within the confines of my own home, constantly.....would be a bit worried if I did it in public though!

Lupin Sat 10-Sept-16 09:43:58

Like LullyDully I encourage myself - out loud. I also give myself instructions - out loud. I find it motivating. Have found myself doing it in a whisper in public. Wish I could encourage myself not to procrastinate. I can do that to Olympic standard. I shall try "do it NOW" in a loud voice.

oznan Sat 10-Sept-16 10:00:01

I talk to myself all the time,even when I am out and about on my mobility scooter(usually things like "which idiot has parked across this ramp!").People do sometimes give me strange looks but it doesn't bother me.I also talk to my dog a lot and when I asked my daughter if she thinks that means I am barmy,she said "not unless the dog answers back."

Ilrina Sat 10-Sept-16 10:10:46

Yes I talk to myself, and to household appliances, and to the green man hanging on the wall outside smile

Gaggi3 Sat 10-Sept-16 10:11:26

All the time! I get a very good quality of conversation that way!

BPJ Sat 10-Sept-16 10:14:46

Quite often when I need expert advice LOL

yggdrasil Sat 10-Sept-16 10:15:11

I got into the habit when talking to the baby in the pram, then the toddler in the pushchair, then the child holding my hand. I only have a shopping trolley now but I still talk to it :-)

Craftycat Sat 10-Sept-16 10:17:05

All the time- I always have done. I think it is because I was an only child. I rabbit away all day long to myself ( & the radio- I talk to that too) The cats ignore me & our old dog used to look sort of interested for a while & then drop off.
I do it in company too. I apologised at a craft group the other week & they said- oh it's OK- we're used to you & we just ignore you if it isn't aimed at us.
It's part my my unique charm (??)

henetha Sat 10-Sept-16 10:20:12

I talk to Wiggy a lot. (my pet cockatiel). That's my excuse! We have quite long conversations.

BRedhead59 Sat 10-Sept-16 10:39:20

In the supermarket " mmmmm that looks nice" or "I don't need any of that goodness that's expensive" and "I'll have two of those" etc etc I know people can hear me but I don't care.
When I'm walking the dog in the fields I discuss the issues of the day with myself and when I'm doing housework and driving and cooking and ... In fact I talk to myself all the time!!

Tegan Sat 10-Sept-16 10:42:03

Quite often I'll be deep in thought, someone will say something to me and I'll ask them 'was I talking to myself?' blush Thus far the answer has been 'no' [phew] but I'm sure it's only a matter of time.