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grannyactivist Thu 12-May-16 23:18:33

My three year old grandson has a privileged education - he is in a fairly expensive private school. Recently the school did a promotional video in which the children (of all ages) were asked, one at a time, what they would like to be when they grow up: an architect, a spy, a footballer, a lawyer and, from my grandson.........a bin man!!! grin

Deedaa Fri 13-May-16 21:19:26

When I was 5 our teacher asked us what we wanted to be. I said I wanted to be an interior designer because I had just been "helping" my poor father do some decorating. Oddly enough I ended up designing record shops - perhaps I did know what I wanted to do.

annodomini Fri 13-May-16 19:38:15

GD2 (now 13) has been through many ambitions but now she has joined the Army Cadets, she has her eye on being a high ranking Army officer. hmm

Grannyben Fri 13-May-16 18:49:15

I can remember when my daughter started nursery, aged 3. They were also asked what they wanted to be when they were older. Twin sisters said a lawyer and a dentist. Another child said she wanted to be a chicken. I really thought her answer was more age appropriate. My daughter said she wanted to work in asda so I could come in and see her every day. She's now a teacher and living the other side of the country.

nipsmum Fri 13-May-16 14:54:31

My granddaughter who is now 12 always said she wanted to be a dog walker. When I got my Westie 9 months ago it was a bit of a novelty and she admits dog walking is a regular chore so she will be something else.

Anya Fri 13-May-16 14:29:07

GS1 (9) wants to be Master of the Universe.

moira13 Fri 13-May-16 14:00:55

My GS (4) has a large menagerie of plastic animals and knows all about them. When I asked if he was going to work with animals when he grew up he said no and that he wanted to be a cook. He makes a good flapjack and so who knows.

annodomini Fri 13-May-16 12:59:31

Boys give up on pirates at about the same age as girls abandon the pink princess phase. Bad news is that GS3 has a penchant for the most villainous characters from Star Wars; alternatively, he would like to be a time lord.

GrannyGalactica Fri 13-May-16 12:45:32

When he was about 3, my DS told us he wanted to be Father Christmas when he grew up. While searching online for gift ideas for my DGD yesterday, i came across this advice:"A pirate ship always makes a good present for a 4 year old plus it focuses him on future career choices." Pirates are very popular at the moment so be prepared for an alarming increase in maritime crime in a few years from now!

tiggypiro Fri 13-May-16 12:40:54

My DGS wanted to be a mermaid. At a similar age I just wanted to get married in an ice cream shop. My aspirations came to nothing and I have a feeling that his won't either !

AnnieGran Fri 13-May-16 12:40:15

When my grandson was about nine some friends visited with their son, the same age. Someone asked, as someone always does, "What are you going to be when you grow up?"

The little visitor said he was going to be an astronaut but he hadn't yet decided which university, he told us his short list, that science and maths were his favourite subjects. His knowledge on the subject was impressive.

Then it was my grandson's turn. "I'm going to be the man that holds the Stop and Go sign on the roadworks." he replied firmly and confidently.

He is a six foot four grownup now and works in IT at County Hall. I wonder sometimes if he has a secret regret that he never got to hold the Stop Go sign.

durhamjen Fri 13-May-16 12:20:23

My grandson wanted to be a train driver until he was thirteen. He then realised that there would be too much noise for him to cope with it.
He now wants to be a postman, and every house we pass he looks for the letterbox to make sure he knows where to put them.

Lilyflower Fri 13-May-16 11:50:22

When my son was five he wanted to be a TV archeologist but that changed to TV chef when he was six.

My 24 year old daughter suggested that if I was bored with being at home after 34 years of teaching I might consider getting a job at Costa's.

My husband who has been a journalist, editor, manager, publisher etc. has only ever really wanted to be a train driver.

Gaggi3 Fri 13-May-16 11:16:21

DGS (7) vacillates between aspiring to inventing things (unspecified) and research into dragons. I have tried to point out, casually, that the latter might not have a lot to work on.

Life would be very unpleasant, not to mention risky, without bin men doing their job, so good for grannyactivist's GS.

belladonna Fri 13-May-16 11:10:39

My son wanted to work at the tip..these places and jobs are fascinating for the young..and as said before..very important jobs..he is now a doctor..but still loves the tip.

inishowen Fri 13-May-16 10:35:15

My son works for a law firm, but recently he said that being a postman would be his dream job. He thinks the fresh air, the walking, and no stress would be wonderful.

annodomini Fri 13-May-16 10:19:38

DGS, when aged 9, wanted to be a stand-up comedian. He still has a quirky - dare I say scatological - sense of humour, but, now 11, has decided to be a designer of computer games. He certainly does lots of research. hmm

Juggernaut Fri 13-May-16 09:52:05

When my DS was three he announced that he was going to be a pensioner like his nan and go to the post office for his money!
It's looking increasingly unlikely that there will be any such thing as state pension by the time he's old enough to retiresad

trisher Fri 13-May-16 09:32:10

I think he is much more in touch with reality than the others ga. When you are 3 the bin lorry and the men collecting the bins are so fascinating. The rest had been coached. He knew what he was talking about. MY GD and GS aged 3 and 1 love watching the bin men- and most of them wave. I can understand your GS thinking that's the best job ever!

Welshwife Fri 13-May-16 09:22:35

My DGS when he was about 6 announced he was going to be a slacker ! He us actually doing an engineering PhD, but he gave us weeks of amusement when he made the announcement.

Zengran Fri 13-May-16 09:18:20

DGD aged 4 when asked a while ago said she wanted to make pizzas in a restaurant. I asked her yesterday if she still wanted to do that. "Oh no" she said, " I am going to be Mary Poppins"

Humbertbear Fri 13-May-16 09:02:32

Please don't worry. My son wanted to be a footballer or a pirate. He is now a Primary school teacher . Life has gone full circle. His grandfather wanted to be a teacher but had to leave school at 14 when is father died and become a tailor in order to keep his mother and three sisters.

Greenfinch Fri 13-May-16 08:53:20

My. DGS wants to drive the dustcart. GA. His twin sister wants to be an artist so that she can get messy. However , he did say the other day that he would like to marry Princess Charlotte so that he could become part of the Royal Family

Craftycat Fri 13-May-16 08:48:19

My ex boss spent a small fortune on his children 's education .Tutors as well as a private schools. We thought it was a bit sad really as they should have been able to just be children. He camehere from Uganda as a child & wantedthe best for his children.
When his little boy was about 6 we were chatting in surgery & the lad told me he knew what he wanted to do when he grew up. He wanted to work in New York- Dad loved very pleased- in McDonald's!! Dad was mortified. We teased him about it for weeks!

thatbags Fri 13-May-16 07:57:31

I wanted to be a cobbler.

Newquay Fri 13-May-16 07:45:32

Our DD1 always wanted to be a maths teacher, a waitress or a trapeze artist.
We all went to a circus show recently which was predominantly acrobatics including, of course, trapeze artists. At the interval I asked what she thought of them. She said "the old pull is still there. . . " she's now a solicitor and has her own practice?